roommate problem??? kick him out!!! taken advantage??

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Ok..so my man and I let a nineteen year old male friend move in..he finally got a part-time job.. 13 hours a week..anyways..we also pay for his ciggs..his food..he sleeps all day and stays up till five in the am..I have to ask him to help when I shouldn't have to. He was suppose to help around the house because I am disabled and my man works 11 hours everyday..he leaves when dark, comes home when dark..no matter what I have said to get this boy moving and helping doesn't work..he said his mom was abusive and calling him lazy etc..now I see why..my question is how would you handle this...any ideas..should I kick him out??? Please let me hear some ideas. I'm at a loss here..oh plus he said he is willing to pay 100 bux a month..um rent agreement is 200 plus buy his own ciggs..help with chores..and his own food..what does he mean he's willing to pay 100.. he has his own room( that stinks when he leaves his door open, he's already worn my floor and chair from where he sits all day..?? :/

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Why is this even a question? You already know what to do! You guys aren't obligated to do anything for him! Your man needs to step up not allow another man to come in your house in this manner. I also see it this way, you and your man share a place together as a couple. No one has any business coming over to live with you guys as if it's a roommate type of situation. This is your home that you share with your man and that's how it should be left unless you really need the help to split rent and utilities for your own financial reasons. So he is lazy and doesn't want to pay his way to live there...$100 doesn't cut it. He's not going to change so you know what to do.

Dan · Answer

Throw him out. It sounds like you already know this.

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