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Question For Women/Girls?
Ive been heartbroken many times.
Apparently its hard for me to find a relationship or find someone with the same interests ina relationship as i do
not alot of people wanna be with someone for the sake of them not their backround or wealth or any of that crap
Not alot of people wanna be with someone that u can learn to trust and share yourself whole with them and share all of ur darkest deepest secrets and reveal to them who u r and be accepted and loved for who u r
Theres alot of things to like in a relationship like interests and hobbies but these things are some of the deepest reasons for being with someone that i have yet to find in a girl. its like impossible...
Any suggestions on what to do.
1 Answer
- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
Hints on how to talk to someone you've never met properly….read below Cheers ♥
SPEAKING to someone you've never met is easy. The secret is not to get nervous, pay attention and ask questions. You should not wait too long, because if you do, someone else might talk to them first, and then they will be gone. Take a deep breath, think of a good subject, and go for it!
MAKE EYE CONTACT This is a great way to connect to someone If you want to get to know somebody better, eye contact will always be the first step
SMILE The law of reciprocity says to give what you want. Say "Hello" or some other greeting. Be a little creative if you like “Hi, how are you” seems to work
EVALUATE THE SITUATION. If they are not maintaining eye contact with you, did not smile back, or did not respond to your greeting, then they may be otherwise distracted or this may not be a good time so wait until another time
MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT and keep smiling, but be relaxed. Maintaining eye contact shows you are interested and intent, and generally everyone likes a smile
COMMENT about something mutual: the weather, sports, work (if you work together), your location or situation (stuck in an elevator), traffic, etc. Talk about something you can both relate to, but not too personal. It's a great way to break the ice
TELL them your name.
ASK THEM A QUESTION These are great things to ask questions about if you cannot think of anything else. It is important when asking questions that you are not interrogating them. Most people love to talk about themselves, but if they don't, then don't press them.
LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAY Remember details. Ask more questions that show you were paying attention.
YOU WILL GET A QUESTION IN RETURN. Eventually they will probably ask you a question, too (law of reciprocity). This is called a conversation. Answer their questions, but don't get too caught up talking about yourself.
DON’T COME ACROSS AS ARROGANT OR AS A KNOW ALL MOST IMPORTANTLY.
Hope this has given u some valuable hints Good Luck ♥