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How do I tell my friend her relationship is moving too fast?
First some background information. We have been friends since grade school. Basically been through everything together. She has been dating this guy for maybe 2 months, and she brings him everywhere. The only time she even tries to hang out or talk to me is when he is at work. I already never get to see her because she goes to college 2 hours away. My concern is that they are moving too fast. They spend the night with each other, and "fool around". She has been saving herself for marriage up until this point. I am afraid he is just looking to accomplish the task of taking her virginity. They have already participated in oral and manual sex. She claims she is still a virgin, but i'm not sure for how long. I am engaged to be married and I have always managed to make time for her, i don't see why she can't dot he same for me. Also she makes posts on facebook about how wonderful he is, and just annoying ":lovey dovey" statuses all the time. I am afraid she is moving too fast and i don't want her to get hurt. I think she is having trouble juggling a new relationship and keeping an old friendship alive.. I need to know how to tell her that she is moving too fast, without starting a fight.
1 Answer
- peachiepieLv 77 years ago
Well, if you are honest she may listen. In order to be really honest you need to start out by telling her
that as her "best friend" I assume, I have to say I miss hanging out with you like we used to and I am
a little jealous that you spend so much time with him and don't have time for girl stuff any more, but
that is not why I think you are moving too fast with him. Remind her of how when you guys used to
talk about saving your self for marriage and all that. Of course if you are jumping into bed with your
fiance she might want to bring that up to you and tell you to mind your buisness!