Do any of you guys have any nice romantic stories?

There was a time when: I dated 7 women. Each of them knew there were six others. I didn't ask their permission. I informed them of Who I am, What I was doing, Why I was doing it and they have the option to stay or leave. I'm good either way. I informed them I was NOT Commitment material, I was Companionship.

If they are looking for Commitment, they need to get away from me.

For the ones that couldn't decide, (I pushed it) I told them:

Statistically speaking there are more Women in the world than there Men. As long as I am NOT Blind, Stupid or Gay, I will find another one. For me, It doesn't have to be YOU. But if You don't have a LINE OF GUYS outside Your front door just waiting to take You out on Dates or if You ever want to try a New Restaurant, Get out of the City, Need a Hug, Want Male Companionship for watching a movie or even to have Sex, CALL ME. Give me advance notice. I'll be there if I can.

That's what I'm good for, that's what I do.

Because I was honest, Open and Direct, they chose to stay. They all stated they had never met a guy who was so upfront. They were impressed. We establish everything between us that should be in every relationship, that they never had in their previous relationships. They were really Blown Out of the Water, when I would help them meet a guy, get a guy's number, help them to Dance with him or We would go "window shopping" for the right kind of guy for them. It was a Memory for them and they let me know every time we crossed path after going our separate ways. Mostly because they wanted someone of their own. In your time and talks I would tell them. Date this who is interested in you as a person and let them experience what it is like to be with the one they desire. It's the same chance you would want to be given if the situation was reversed… Right?? But inform them you will be Dating other people. You are NOT interested in being Exclusive. He gets to treat you, you get to be treated and you both are "Free of Obligation". It took guts for them to do what I was doing with them. They were scared, but excited about being free, but with companionship and no obligation.

In my situation with the 7 women, I would talk to them about what I knew about how guys operate, why and what to look out for. They could not believe that I was giving up that much and that kind of information. They shared some of their NOT SO GOOD relationship experiences with me and admitted that things started to make sense. I talked with them about things like Dating, Sharing Responsibilities and Expenses, Communication, Arguments and Sex. As it turned out, I was a "Good and Unique Experience" for them.

Even the sex thing was an experience they never had before. NOT because I'm good, but because I encouraged them to talk to me about what pleased them, what they favored and what they were curious about. The fact that we were not together and couldn't break up, made it easier for them to open up to me.

Granted this is not the romantic story you were looking for, but I share this, because I'm nothing special, but I did this.