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My Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me?
I was in a relationship with this girl for 3 years, it was a long distance one and we loved each other a lot, we were so close and we were planning a future together, but few weeks back she started to ignore me and she started to behave very oddly..when asked she told that she doesnt have feelings for me anymore and she is feeling that she is lying to me and cant hurt me..i was shocked ..i asked her in what way are you lying to me..so she told me that she smokes and drinks and she never told me those....but I still felt something is wrong because I knew her for 3 years...yest I asked her whats wrong and she confessed she cheated on me with another guy... im shattered and down..i donno what to do... she cried a lot and told she was wrong...but im not sure what to do.... im so broken...help me please
7 Answers
- 7 years ago
First, never do long distance relationships. No matter how close, longevity of the relationship; it's not fair to either of you.
You may still have feelings for her, but you really can't trust her anymore. Plus you will end up resenting her. If she's still out town( you or her) then that makes matters worse. It would end up being agonizing on your part. She's already shown you what she would do when she's lonely. Let her go. Both of you will be ok.
- 7 years ago
Dude. You have 2 options. Let's break it down:
OPTION 1: Forgive her
You could put all of this behind you, try to mend things and start over, but it will be really hard for you to trust her again.
OPTION 2: DUMP HER
This is the one I would go with if I was in your shoes. She told you she doesn't have feelings for you anymore AND she wasn't faithful. I would be betrayed. The downside to all of this is its going to be difficult getting back into the dating scene after a 3 year relationship but more importantly it's going to be hard for a girl to get your trust again. But if it were me, I wouldn't want to keep her in something her heart is clearly not into.
It's up to you though.
- Chris SellickLv 77 years ago
You both need time out to sort yourselves out.You and her need some time away from each other.You might want to end the relationship and take some time to figure out what you want to do.
Cheating is a deal breaker in any relationship.She was losing interest in you.Thats what caused her to cheat.Its not going to get any better by staying together.Take time out and figure out what you want.She is sorry but she's likely to do it again.
- 7 years ago
If she cheated, you're going to get cheated on again if you give her a second chance. Leave her, that's my advice to you, dear.
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