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I don't know how i feel about being with this guy.... opinions?

So i am currently single, i am 14 and a freshman in high school. The guy that i guess i can say i'm talking to is 16, a sophomore and taken. I bet you all are already thinking i'm crazy for talking to a guy who's taken right? but hear me out. I've been talking to this guy since the beginning of August in 2013. We both have liked each other since we met. He saw me at my Freshman Orientation for school, and was astounded by my looks. He tweeted about me on twitter and said i was one of the prettiest girls in the school. He then found my twitter and got a hold of me, and it turned out we had the same off period in our 1st semester, so we got to know each other during that off period and we both started to like each other. Things happened, he met another girl, me and him stopped talking for a while, then it turned out that other girl and him didn't work out and eventually stopped talking. (they weren't ever dating) He came back and apologized for parting ways with me and we started talking to each other again. Eventually, we stopped talking as much as we used to and we just weren't as close anymore. He then found a girl and is now currently dating her, but he texts me and also tells me in person that he wants to be with me and wants to kiss me (we've never kissed each other yet) but he's dating somebody. I don't want to be the reason why them 2 don't work out, but then again we both really like each other and we still hang out with each other. Some advice/opinions will help? Thanks

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  • 7 years ago
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    It's a warning sign if he's talking about being with you when with another girl. You may try and convince yourself that you guys both truly like each other because you have feelings for him, but be careful. With this one I think it would be better to let him go, because in the end it sounds like a scenario where you would be hurt even if he seems like a good guy.

    Another thing is the age. It isn't a big age gap, but guys at that age usually don't take dating seriously, especially if you just started high school. Maybe you could talk to some other people he knows about his habits in things like this (plays around a lot with girls, etc.), but try to do so discreetly o you may be accused of stalking.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I'm 15 and a sophomore.

    I've been there girl, honestly.

    His name is Charlie and it's like some girl always got in the way of us being together.

    I eventually gave up and found someone way hotter.

    He got angry, which was great.

    I guess what I'm saying is he's too confused and immature for you, and you should find someone who knows what he wants. That will also piss emotionally confused loverboy off and make him want you which is always great.

  • 7 years ago

    Girl. Clearly. You can do better. Forget that guy!! I'm 16 and a junior! You have 3 more years baby! Enjoy them! Forget that prick. Find a rebound guy!

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Ask him why he's with that girl if he likes you so much. Sounds like you like him but he's a jerk for being with other girls while he says he likes you. That's not fair to you. Good luck :)

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