My friend has a crush on me!?

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I am a 19 year old male, tall and rather muscular. I feel I look kind good, and apparently so does my friend.

So, this friend is transsexual. Male to female. I have know shim for a bit, and sometimes we hang out. It has become apparent to me that she like me alot, and I wont let our friendship turn into a love relationship.

I am asexual, and I dont have any interest in a romantic or sexual relationship with anyone.

I dont really know what to do... How do I make it really clear that she is friendzoned to eternity?

Lily R · Accepted Answer

I have an ex-boyfriend who I am in the same boat with, however I'm on the opposite side of the relationship. I'm the one who has the major obsessive crush on him. And like well he is gay and well like him just telling me that and making it clear cos of that we will never happen is enough for me. I mean you are asexual so if you just explain that I'm sure she will understand. I mean it is going to hurt her or at the very least disappoint her but it is better then leading her on, something my ex said at first by going "maybe we can be together one day", that lasted from February until September and left me pretty gutted when he finally said we'd never happen.

Just be honest with her.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't think of a person you could be more open with in regard to your sexuality than this friend.  The kindest thing would be to let her know as soon as possible.

Purple Rose · Answer

Tell her in the nicest way possible that you don't like her as more than a friend, and that you don't want it to ruin your friendship.

Deon · Answer

Dude just give her a chance if you don't like it break up

? · Answer

Hit it and Quit it. And let her dad deal with it.

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