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I need help with girls.?
Im 17 and a male. I have a huge crush on this girl in the grade below me and i really want to make her my girlfriend. Shes really cute and one of the nicest people in school. my best friend goes out with her best friend. I dont really know how to talk to her because i think she knows that i like her so i feel awkward. Also she is always with her three best friends so its really hard for me to talk to her 1 on 1. Do you guys have any advise how i can talk to her, what i can do to not be nervous? thanks for the help.
3 Answers
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
To talk to her alone, try catching her by herself in the hallway. That way if things get awkward, then you could split off and talk to her at a different time. Or if you guys hit it off then you can keep on talking and maybe walk her to her next class/locker. It shouldn't be hard since she's nice. And honestly just go with the basics. Like, "Hey [her name].." and then she'll be like "Hey" (role playing here[:) then she'll either start it off or you will(but since you talked to her first, you should)
Just ask her basic stuff that'll easily start a conversation. And even if your conversation goes bad, don't just walk away thinking about what you did wrong and ignoring each other walk separate ways. Play it cool. Whatever happens always give a nice smile and say "bye". Just doing that makes a big difference so even if your shy, at least she knows you can smile!
If you guys barely know each other, don't tell her that you want her immediately. Sometimes it scares girls off and they'll automatically reject you. And tell her someplace quiet where no one else can see, it makes things awkward when other people are looking. And the key is to always show confidence. But if you aren't confident, just pretend to be. Don't we all?
- 7 years ago
What I would is pull her to the side like say something like "can I talk to you for a sec." and shell say what is it then you show her how you feel and what you think about her like " I know we have been friends and stuff but I wanna be more than that" take her hand and ask her out it shows that you have lots of confidence and girls love that. Becareful not to get nervous and talk calmly that's one of the biggest mistakes guys make
- 7 years ago
Matt, I had this problem. Just go up to her whenever (prefferably with less friends). Be confident and dont really let the other girls faze you. Dont get nervous, just ask her if she wants to hang out, just you and her sometime. "Hey, would you maybe want to hamg out some time and watch a movie or something?" Girls will eat up confidence like dogs eat meat. If she says yeah, just say okay, ill text you. If she says no, say alright, cya later. Dont let her know it fazes you. If she says yes, lightly smile and say the above. Let me know how it goes, kik me at hainzee no, im not a girl, im a teenage boy.