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Lv 5

Is it okay that I let my husband sleep with other women?

Update:

I knew it would be asked if he "lets" me sleep with other men.

1. You can not "allow" someone to do something with their genitals. They are theirs, not yours.

2. I have never had a desire to sleep with other men. I'm missing out on nothing.

3. If a woman sleeps with 2 men, she has to test her kids. A man can't bring home a baby for me to raise for 18 years and I don't know it's mine.

4. If you know someone is not a faithful person and marry them anyway, then expect fidelity, you're living in a fantasy world that doesn't exist.

I knew what I was choosing and I'm not bothered.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago
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    1 - Very good.

    2 - Very good.

    3 - Yes.

    4 - Yes.

    Very good.

  • 7 years ago

    U intentionally let him sleep or he cheated u n let it be ? Anyways if u feel its fine then let it be n move on with ur life.. u don't want to make things worse by thinking about it when u can just ignore it n be happy.. men do cheat .. n its fine untill its not a habit n its not compromising ur relation n life..

  • Corey
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    If both of you are comfortable with it, then it's ok. I hope there's not a double standard, and he doesn't demand your half of the marriage isn't open too.

    Personally, I wouldn't. But if it works for the two of you, then who am I to tell you not to?

  • Shark
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    The Hippie movement is long gone

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  • 7 years ago

    Is he letting you sleep with other men?

  • Only if you both want a child, But you yourself cannot have one, If you both approve, either sex can have a relationship with another sex to have them bear the child for you. Other than that no.

  • IMO.... NO.... in fact I think you are a fool at best......... you must be get'n some really good fringe benefits to put up with that

  • Evan
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    He asks your permission?

    Does the same freedom apply to you?

    I wouldn't be happy about it, if I were you.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    Openly practicing adultery?

    I think you know the answer to that question.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Because....you want to....watch? Join in?

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    Only you can decide that.

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