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I'm really upset. Why is this guy acting this way? I will answer yours!!!?
I've known this guy 2 months. We haven't met but we are going to this week. He's told me he really likes me and fancies me etc. at first I hated him and didnt like him but now all of a sudden I've changed and can't stop thinking about him. He calls me a lot and we talk everyday(when he's not busy etc)
On Tuesday he was ignoring me(well I thought he was) i told him I needed to tell him something and I tried calling him but he didnt answer. Basically I wanted to tell him that I really like him and that I wanna go places with him and be with him. I want it to go somewhere. He said before in the past he wanted to go out with me. I messaged him saying I called you.. You always ignore my calls:( I'm such a ****! He rang me back and my mouth felt like it had a zip on!!!! He asked if I was alright and everything. Then he said you needed to tell me something.. What was it? And I was like do I have to tell you now lol I was laughing. Then I just came out with "I like you" and he said awwww your so cute. He always calls me cute lol Hearing his voice makes me smile π³ he was driving while he called me. Then I said will you message me when you get home.. He said yes but didn't lol I haven't heard from him at all today!! I tried messaging
Thank you. He's 26. I'm 19.
I don't think he wants to meet anymore though! We were supposed to so many times but either his car is broke or he's skint and he said he would take me out. I just feel likes he's acting distant :( but he rings me out of the blue sometimes!! While he's at work and it makes me think he likes. I confronted him about if he's chatting or seeing someone and he said he's not. We got into an argument once and I tested him to see if he cared about me!! I said if your sorry you'll ring me and he did π³π³π³π³ I just messaged now saying take care. I won't bother you again π he was on whatsapp at 4 this morning. Goes on Facebook but ignores me now. He used to be so eager before.is he upset with me for not liking him to begin?
3 Answers
- ?Lv 47 years ago
He sounds like he could've been playing you a bit. Maybe he did have good intentions to start with, but players always seem like they're serious about you at first and the slowly start to disappear.
If you've messaged him and he's been online on various things and hasn't replied, then I think that's your answer:( he's trying to tell you that he's no longer interested I think.
He told you he liked you and then as soon as you said the same back, he became distant? I may be wrong but to me that screams out that he didn't have very good intentions or no longer does.
It's going to be hard, but so far I think this guys probably caused you more heart ache then happiness from what you're saying. At the moment you're concentrating on all the good things he's done, but he's done a lot of hurtful things to you, so I think you should move on.
Best of luck!!
- 7 years ago
Same exact thing is going on with me. I'm 22 and he's 27 our birthdays are exactly a month apart (cute right Lol) but first I did not like him AT ALL when we first started talking. Then like you I gave in. Which was the biggest mistake ever! Because men like a chase. Men like challenges. The harder you act the harder they want you. I wish I could rewind the hands of time. We are still friends but it's more like I'm his friend. But be patient and give it time and give him a little space. He's older and his mind may be tied up in his priorities. Which is a good thing. So just back off a lil. 1 text a week. Trust me he will come around. So good luck to you and me both! ;)
