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This guy isn't messaging me now? :( I will answer yours!!!?

I've known this guy 2 months. We haven't met but we are going to this week. He's told me he really likes me and fancies me etc. at first I hated him and didnt like him but now all of a sudden I've changed and can't stop thinking about him. He calls me a lot and we talk everyday(when he's not busy etc)

On Tuesday he was ignoring me(well I thought he was) i told him I needed to tell him something and I tried calling him but he didnt answer. Basically I wanted to tell him that I really like him and that I wanna go places with him and be with him. I want it to go somewhere. He said before in the past he wanted to go out with me. I messaged him saying I called you.. You always ignore my calls:( I'm such a ****! He rang me back and my mouth felt like it had a zip on!!!! He asked if I was alright and everything. Then he said you needed to tell me something.. What was it? And I was like do I have to tell you now lol I was laughing. Then I just came out with "I like you" and he said awwww your so cute. He always calls me cute lol Hearing his voice makes me smile 😳 he was driving while he called me. Then I said will you message me when you get home.. He said yes but didn't lol I haven't heard from him at all today!! I tried messaging

Thank you. He's 26. I'm 19.

I don't think he wants to meet anymore though! We were supposed to so many times but either his car is broke or he's skint and he said he would take me out. I just feel likes he's acting distant :( but he rings me out of the blue sometimes!! While he's at work and it makes me think he likes me. I confronted him about if he's chatting or seeing someone and he said he's not. We got into an argument once and I tested him to see if he cared about me!! I said if your sorry you'll ring me and he did 😳😳😳😳

He hasn't spoke to me for 3 days until today he said he's been ill and hasn't slept for a week and feels like crap. I just said I'm always here for you etc. and he said yeah and called me cute with a kiss.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I dont know, he might be playing with you a bit, but i'm not in the situation. I think you should try to let him message you because if he cares enough, he will message you. He already has the leg up with his age, you need to make it seem like you're not attached to him that much and you're not needy because that will just scare him away. Let him come to you.

    (please answer my latest question xoxo)

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    It is clear this guy likes you, otherwise he would not go out of his way to call you and ask you out, He has made gestures toward you, and I think if you want this to work your going to have to be the one to chase him a little bit :) hope that helps!

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