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how does a shy guy meet shy girls?
I am very shy(so much so that when someone I don't know talks to me I completely go as silent as possible) and I also find shy girls very cute, but I have no idea how to start conversations and I also don't want to make them feel as awkward as I do when people come up to me.
well I don't understand how to meet knew people, like if someone is sitting down somewhere it would be kinda weird to just say hi and sit down next to them, wouldn't it?
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- AdryanaLv 57 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm a shy girl and if a shy guy wanted to ask me out-it'd either be a perfect relationship or the worst relationship. Here's how a guy could start a conversation with me: Greet her! She'll most likely say hi back-might be a little confused on why you're talking to her but most people are at least polite enough to talk back. Then just go for it! If you know her, ask her about something you know she's into-like a class you know she's taking, or about music she's recently heard. If you don't know her, it'll be extremely weird at first, but ask about the strange weather or something near by (if it's in a coffee shop for example, ask what she thinks is good because you want to try a new drink...then if you can, pay for her's-she'll remember you and be more open to talk to you that way). Shy girls can open up and let me tell you, she'll feel awkward anyway...it's just how it is...you might be able to even use that as a starting point ("well this is awkward but..."). Perfect line, lets her know she's not the only one. And push come to shove, ask if she wants to hang out sometime (girls tend to find it cute when guys get flustered).
- 7 years ago
Just say Hi, keep it simple. If she says Hi then as a simple question (How are you, do you play sports, any hobbies, etc.) If she doesn't say hi then just smile(as well as you can) and walk away. Don't feel bad if she doesn't sometimes it just takes a little time for her to get comfortable.
Good Luck!
PS shy guys are attractive to me I know I'm not the only one
- 7 years ago
Im a shy girl and when I met my boyfriend for the first time it was through a friend. We had no choice to hang out at lunch because none of our friends had the same lunch.
So basically you just have to open up and step out of your comfort zone and talk to her. If you open up it's most likely she will too good luck :)
- Anonymous7 years ago
Just have to man up and approach girls. its hard i know man, Im shy too. But girls dont generally approach guys first, it sucks. If you just wait for girls to talk to you first, you will die alone. Its the sad reality.
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- Anonymous7 years ago
Say hi I'm [insert name] tell me something about yourself. That line is a winner every time.
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