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Did this guy just use me? I'm so upset! I will answer yours :-)?

I've known this guy for about 2 months! We really got along and everything was ok. I haven't met him yet but he has asked me but I was busy with things so next week he said we will meet.

He always rings me and texts me. Makes the effort! And 2 weeks ago he revealed his "horny" side. He said he's really attracted to me and I'm his girl and baby and wants me to be his first. He told me he's not chatting to anyone else! Sometimes he can be so sweet. Last night went badly though! We were talking about kissing and he mentioned sex and I said I wanna wait till marriage which he already knew. He said we'll see and he doesn't think he can wait till marriage but can wait a couple of months. Does that mean its all about sex to him?? Then I noticed the slow replies I was getting back from him and he didnt seem eager that much although he was calling me sexy, bbe and bby and we talked about meeting next week then I was getting needy for some reason and got upset. He hasn't rlly msgd tdy

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Obviously hes very attracted to you but if all he wants is sex I would steer clear. If he doesnt talk to you as soon as you remind him that you dont want to have sex before marriage then that tells you that he may be a little too focused on that aspect of it. He may still like you as a person but I would talk to him and try to first totally understand his feelings before i got into a relationship with him.

  • 7 years ago

    It's possible but then again he is a man but it if when you guys meet he treats you right that's when you know for sure because talking over text can be tricky answer mine:)

  • 7 years ago

    Well, it's obvious he's attracted to you. How about you go on a few dates with him and see how he is then? If all he wants is sex and you're not ready, tell him that. If he respects your decision, he's a keeper. If he doesn't, you can do better.

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  • 7 years ago

    If he tray to make sex with you in first time met so he really just want sex

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    The RED flag is flying. He has only one thing in mind, so stay away.

  • He's not using u girl, and if so dump him your grow is I bet

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