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where can a 52 year old man meet women?

ok, i am 52 year old widower of 5+ years. 5'9" tall, around 200#, thats the winter weight. lol, i do not go to bars or churches. i am told i am not too bad on the eyes. great job, houses, summer place in the mountains, love to travel abroad when i can, don't drink, don't smoke, never done drugs, kids are grown with there own lives to live, i have tons of free time, love to garden and anything outside. not a sports freak. haha. so where do i go to meet a nice, attractive woman? been on the dating sites and will never do that again!! just a meat locker looking for a man to support them and pay their debts. age and race are not a big issue. i see folks for who there are. oh , i live in a fairly small town 30k +\-

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i work at a place that is 99% men, so that idea is out the wondow. we\ only have one place they call a coffee shop and i feel anyone who likes "staryucks" has no clue what real coffee is. i live in a new town now and the few friends i have are a dry well.

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  • 6 years ago

    Keep active. Join a gym, but a small one. Over time you'll meet male acquaintances that will pan out to other social circles. This is a long-term thing. You might try a hiking club; there are meetups for your age range on meetup.com. Traveling is a great way to meet people too, as you probably know.

    Don't look for women, look for your own kind of fun where you could make some connections.

    Someone on another board suggested a community garden, if you have access to such things in your area.

    skip the Internet because it thinks that all men are tall, handsome, rich and 30-35. Stupid advice like yoga classes, volunteering and church are all geared toward that crowd, and thanks again to the Internet, are filled with superficial people who would only prejudge you as a "creeper."

    Bars work better than dating websites would lead you to believe. However, you're in danger of become a barfly or dating one. Those people die on those stools.

    Lots of women in their forties love travel and being outdoors, so there's your hook. It's a matter of making a new friend circle through activities (over time) that will lead to a companion.

    I hope I've helped you in some way.

    Don't change yourself for women, you'll just be miserable. Instead, do the things you like in social ways.

    Source(s): The world as I've experienced it.
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Can you say Sugar Daddy? Gay or straight, you're the toy. This relationship isn't going to get any more serious. 2 years and he's still w/ The Wife? Hello! You're the bf, that's it. Don't tell your parents anything unless your Man leaves, divorces his wife and you move in w/ the guy. But until that happens (and it won't), keep your mouth shut. Wait until you're in a 'real' relationship w/ someone else. If he's taking care of you, well, that's up to you. Pretend you have a job or something....

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    how often do you want to have sex? Why did you and your wife get a divorce? How much money do you make? Where do you live? How attractive are you? do you like fat or skinny women? Short or tall women?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself or someone may ask you.

    You may want to give dating sites another try.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Most people meet their partners at work. Do you have any friends who could set you up on a few blind dates? Or hang out a local coffee shop or something, and introduce yourself to a woman who catches your eye.

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  • 6 years ago

    do u mind making friends with a 26 year old woman? i know it sounds stupid. but not looking for relation, but friendship with a man of your age...online

  • 6 years ago

    Try going online, you might be lucky and meet someone. Good luck!

  • 6 years ago

    on yahoo answers obvi ;) ;) always interested in hot older guys xoxox

  • 7 years ago

    at a bar

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