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I think I'm in love with my teacher, help?

it's been about 4 months, i'm a 14 year old girl and he's a single 50 year old teacher, and im more than just infatuated man im ****** obsessed with him, i can't get him off my ****** mind!!i think he might or might not be interested in me too, because he always ALWAYS smiles at me, makes a special kinda voice when he's talking to me, and usually he always raises my score higher than other people. like for example, if on a test i missed something, he just wont care he'll still give me the point and i know this because he tells me all the time "you missed this" or "you forgot to bring this" but then he's always just like "its alright i wont take any points off for you :)" with a huge smile and we've hugged a lot before and i love him so much and what do i do? could i ever have any chance with him? my friends are daring me to stay after school and to trick him into thinking i need help with math, but then u kno start to strip for him and grab him and stuff

ahhh help

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    7 years ago
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    i would suggest if you do care for him you do NOTHING ----- not even hug him ----- you are well under the age of consent (16 to 18 in the us) and he is your teacher ---- if you do anything sexual or romantic he will lose his job and be put on the sex offenders register ---- you will be caught dont ever doubt that ---- keep it as a fantasy until you are over the age of consent AND you are no longer at the same school (even if he is a teacher) ----- you could have a chance but it depends what you mean by chance ---- for sex ??? yes probably it sounds like he is willing to risk everything ----- for a serious relationship??? its possible

  • 7 years ago

    Now, why would you want to seriously be with someone who is 40 years older than you? How long do you think that would last? I know this sounds very harsh, but he'll die far, far before you do and you'll be sad and alone. Use your head. This has no future whatsoever!

    Being obsessed with someone is very different than loving someone. Feelings of obsession only last for so long and then you're left with nothing. If you tried to strip for him, he would definitely get fired or possibly even go to jail for pedophilia. Do you want that? You could even get suspended...

    I know you have a lot of emotions right now, but don't take this any further than what it's at.

  • 7 years ago

    That guy is old enough to be your father.....

    My advice is to do absolutely nothing, and focus your attention in class instead of on how good-looking he is.

    You also said in your question "my friends are daring me to stay after school and to trick him into thinking i need help with math, but then u kno start to strip for him and grab him and stuff".

    If he does those things, he could go to jail for statutory rape since you're a minor. It's serious business & it could land the both of you in trouble.

  • 7 years ago

    same girl same! but im not obsessed just really into y'know. he's 30 and im 16 (in about a month and 1/2). he's hot and witty. but i know it's wrong and i wouldn't even try to come onto him myself. but if he came on to me then i probably would do stuff not gonna lie LOL. just trust me don't try it, he's just being nice. i think 50 is a little overboard but i shouldnt be the one to talk. loool.

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