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Help me I totally screwed this up?
Okay thank you in advance for reading this.
Like any other story that starts off like this, I was totally confused. I asked a girl out and got a "maybe later". Well it has been about 2 months and I was thinking about going for it. Then her best friend tells me she likes me. But the friend knows I asked the girl out. And about the response. But I know it now and I'm not sure if I continue on with my plans to ask the girl out or change my plan totally and go for the friend. I don't know because the girl might be hurt or she might be happy. I just don't know anymore.
See that wasn't too painful. Please help me.
Okay I have to add that I talk to both of them quite often like every day. And honestly I have a general idea of how I want this to go. I just need you guys to tell me what I'm supposed to do.
Also, I've known both for about 2 years
Also, I've known both for about 2 years
Also, he friend made a point of telling me that I am the only person who knew. That's mostly what's bothering me. And thank you for taking the time to read this
6 Answers
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
I don't know the level of friendship that existed between you two when you first asked her out, but for all I know, at that time, she might not even have known you that well or much about you. If her best friend is serious about her statement, then my best guess is, she somehow learn't more about you within these two months and now she has true feelings for you. And it certainly seems legit because the first person she'd confide in will obviously be her best friend. So, I think you've got a real shot at it now. Just to be completely sure, you can even talk things over with her best friend once (as she already knows the deal between you two , so a few extra questions won't hurt) as to exactly what she said and stuff. But, according to me, it's the green light for you to ask her out. Good Luck :)
- Anonymous7 years ago
she gave you the answer then and it was that maybe later. She pretty much ended it there and lost her chance with you. i honestly think you should get to know the friend that likes you and if you don't miss the other girl or even think about once when your with that friend or texting her then say hello to your new girlfriend
- 7 years ago
Well if your friend said you liked you, and if you still like her then yeah go for it. If now you like the other friend, well that's up to you, in this situation you shouldn't feel bad about your previous crush. Good luck.
- 7 years ago
LOL.... if you like her friend - honestly like her - yes ask her out. The first one didn't go out when you asked her. "Maybe later" sounds like a "yeah when I have no one else"... don't wait.
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- Anonymous7 years ago
Go for it, what do u have to lose.
