My boyfriend is hurting my feelings, please help?

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When me and my boyfriend first got together we would give each other  little letters because we had to keep out love a secret( we live in the same house,but our parents won't let us be together. Long story.). We used to give them to each other all the time and he would always respond but now I give him letters and he doesn't reply. I asked him to please reply and he said he would but it's been a day and he still hasn't. I asked him again a few minutes ago and he said "Maybe". Maybe this is not a big deal but I mean if I can take time out of my day to write him then why can't he? It really hurts my feelings. I feel like he is not excited about this relationship like he was in the beginning...

Meg · Answer

The trouble with relationships is the spark fizzles out, I recently just broke up with my ex and i used to screenshot the cute texts he sent me and read the ones from the start of the relationship which were saying how much he liked me, wanted us to stay together always, how perfect i am and how much he's wanted it.. to a couple of months ago when we would just talk like you would to your best mate and hardly ever say anything sweet and then when we were just splitting up he barely bothered replying at all.

To me it sounds like your boyfriends head is elsewhere, he's distant and it's an awful feeling because you don't know what to do for the best. I'd suggest to tell him how you really feel, if nothing changes then give him some space and see if he changes.

Anonymous · Answer

If its truly bothering you then the best thing yoi can possibly do is tell him&#x2F;confront him about how much it hurts you when he ignores you especially after you took your time in writing the letter.

Anonymous · Answer

I think u should talk to him and find out what&#x27;s going on. The worst thing is being unsure.

Anonymous · Answer

Dump him

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My boyfriend is hurting my feelings, please help?

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