Im a virgin and i need help???? Please!?

Don't be nervous! I was a little scared when I lost my virginity but here are some tips to help. The first one is make sure this is what you want and you already said you are sure about having sex so thats AWESOME! step one done :) next you have to know that being nervous is only gonna make it hurt more because you are going to tense up and thats bad. In order to avoid pain you want to be as calm and wet as possible! So lots of foreplay! Also try some lube if thats something you are comfortable with! And talk to your boyfriend about it! The more you talk about sex the less surprises there will be! That should also help make you less nervous if you two are on the same page! Best of luck :)

For the most part YES, of course. No matter what it is the first time of, anxiety, nervousness of the unknown, what's to happen, be it good, bad or somewhere in the middle. And no such life altering task/subject is going to produce more of the above fore mentioned feelings, for both the guy n girl's 1st time.

just talk w/ your guy 1st, often the 1st attempt at your 1st time never goes as in visioned, or dreamed about, may even take a couple attempts, either in 1 nt, or perhaps even spread out over time. Point IS don't worry so much that it puts more pressure onto it, I know right, why not ask a dalmatian to shed its spots, yet remember This n This only if nothing else, how you're feeling, so has, did, and does EVERYONE else. Remember, be safe, have fun, and in time, it gets much better mentally which helps the physicality

Its pretty normal to be nervous/scared of having sex. Its a totally new experience to you. Everything new is always a bit daunting because you havent done it before. Its like changing schools, your first day is always a bit scary but once you do it, you realise its not as bad as you thought.. well sex is the same. It'll hurt the first time but dont let that put you off, thats also perfectly normal. Your being broken in if you know what i mean. After maybe 2-3 times youll really enjoy it! Provided your guy has some skills....

Have fun dont be scared :P

Hey girl! Don't worry if you are really sure this is what you want just try and enjoy yourself and let him deal with the mechanics of it all xD I just lost my v-card on valentines day and I wasn't scared but I'm sure many girls are...take a deep breath relax it should be fun so let it! Also be safe and make sure you have condoms and maybe get one birth control

Most people are at least a little scared before their first time, like when you had your first kiss I suppose, but just relax and to be honest, enjoy it. It will most likely hurt but soon this is replaced by pleasure

All I know is it'll hurt ALOT in the first 2 minutes of losing your virginity and if you don't take birth pills or condoms, you WILL have a baby 70% chance, and you'll get nasty @ss stds if you didn't get checked before.

make sure your either wet enough or lubed up. Make sure he takes it as slow as you feel necessary and always wear a condom. Finally remember not to get pressured into doing anything you don't want and enjoy!

I was nervous too.

First: Make sure you're safe, birthcontrol, condoms, etc.

Second: Let him know that you're nervous, ask him for a lot, i mean a lot of foreplay

Third: LUBE!!! it will hurt if you're not lubricated enough, and if you're nervous, you're body wont lubricate itself

Fourth: Even with a ton of lube it still might hurt. Don't compare you're first time to how all sexual encounters will be.

Have fun!

The only thing I have to say, is if you are freaking out this much you are probably not ready. Do you really want to make this mistake?

girl,if you are this nervous you should wait,i'm 18 and i freak out even when i think a guy is about to kiss me