Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

How to deal with a bully at school?

So this doesn't pertain to me, it regards my GF at school. She is being bullied online and at school. She constantly texts her, insulting her ect, and she told my GF friends that she wants to confront her at school and 'beat her up.' Obviously my GF is scared to go to school, and all last weekend she kept her phone off so she wouldn't get texts from her. The teachers don't believe that she is a bully. My GF doesn't even know why she is the target of her bullying, she even tried to ask her but never got an answer, just insults and what not.

Today at school the bully came up to my GF and started yelling at her and saying that "she wished they weren't In school so she could beat her up" and my GF yelled back asking what she wanted and started crying...the teacher then claimed that the bully was trying to apologize and now wants to meet with my GF parents about her actions... Soo how could we even deal with this, I feel really bad that this is happening, and want it to stop.

8 Answers

Relevance
  • 7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I am so sorry this is happening to your girlfriend. Whenever you can, I would defend your girlfriend as much as you can. Get in the other chick's face and tell her off. Whether it's at school or outside of school. Talk to your school counselor. Protect your woman. You can even go as far as shoving that girl away. And if she has a boyfriend, check him too. Tell all your friends and your girlfriend's friends to band together against that girl, but don't actually jump her or anything.

  • reza
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    If your gf hasn't deleted the texts, have her show them to a teacher. It's also possible to have the phone company block a number so the bully wouldn't be able to text or call her so you could look into that, and online your gf can just block them. Honestly the best way to deal with a bully is to ignore them, and if they act out because of it then get them in trouble for it. And if the teachers aren't listening to you you should try to see a school counselor and talk to them about it.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Seems like you are just sitting an watching this happen. Not cool.

    If you are concerned then advocate for her instead for just watching her get hurt. Talk the the school counsler and tell her what you have seen and show her the txt messages. Save those texts and show her parent and the counsler. Be proative. So long as you all sit and do nothing for your selves the longer you will continue to be victimized by this stupid girl.

  • 7 years ago

    stupid retard adults...go with her to talk to the teachers and stuff...if she still has the text messages shes getting from the bully then she has them for proof to show the teachers and principle and stuff...if none of that is working and the bully wont stop go with you GF and confront her...your a guy so she wouldnt have the nerve to try to beat you up :) if she doesnt stop theeeen you might as well just kill her

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 7 years ago

    Tell your girlfriend to print off all evidence that she is being bullied (also known as harrassed) and show the authorities (teachers, principal, maybe even the campus cop at your school).

  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Show the texts. Its proof and it's illegal that the bully is doing this. Thats harassment.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Maybe she can text you and you show up at the spot where she gets bullied?

  • 7 years ago

    Parents scare teachers, convince her parents or have her convince her parents.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.