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How to talk to sorority girls?

I've recently joined a fraternity and our first mixer is coming up. How do I talk to all these beautiful women? Will they like me? I'm also trying to get a date for my chapter's formal. I don't drink so it's out of the question.

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I think you need to reconsider what you're asking. "Sorority girls" are not snobby, although certain individuals in sororities can be. A sorority is not a single entity; it is an organization made up of many different women who all have the power to individual choose their actions. It's unfair to lump so many diverse women that have joined so many diverse organizations into a single over cliched term like "sorority girl". That being said, some girls are bitches. It's not being in a sorority that makes you snobby or mean, it's being snobby or mean that makes you these things. Its true that sometimes these people group together in a certain chapter, but that doesnt mean that the whole sorority is that way, or to generalize even worse, all women who join sororities are that way. The actions the women in your friends sorority probably have to do with what "type" of sorority they joined, which is probably a measure of their character or the reasons why they joined their organization. I think some girls choose to join their respective sororities because they want to surround themselves with girls who are just like them and create a bubble of "perfection" in which to live their lives. It's possible that once your friend started having problems, her sisters didnt know what to make of this sudden change in their status quo and backed away. Again, I want to emphasize that the actions of her sisters are the actions of individuals, not of the sorority. I would have to say that my sisters and I are not "snobby" or "insincere." We are bonded together by friendship and mutual ideals, and not by any innate desire to badmouth or bring down other people.

  • 7 years ago

    IM IN ONE!(: But you are still a pledge but that doesnt exectly mean you wont get any. And talk to them normal.Be polite funny and flirty and allways give them drinks! a great mixer will have alot of beer.Good luck!

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