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Girls only? Did i do something wrong?

I need a girls opinion on what this girl is doing please? I am a teenaged guy and met this girl a few months back, she leaves soon. She is amazing, my perfect 10. I spoke to her on facebook at first and it went well, turned out we have things in common, and i stupidly told a mate i liked her. He said he wouldnt tell but obviously hinted it around and although im not certain i guess she heard. I think at this point she slightly started liking me back. It went proper awkward though and i turn to jelly every time i am near her and one time she sat with me for half an hour and i was so terrified we didnt even speak! Now she seems to hate me and actively avoids me, i cant just 'talk' to her coz its way too awkward. Im gonna try again tomoz though. What is she doing and what do I do? I made an awkward **** up and now she seems to hate me as if i shot someone and its horrible. I tried approaching her after my **** up and i just got one word answers and silences, awkward! Im thinking just forget it all and start again, just a smile and a genuine 'hi' as she passes tomorrow, she cant hate me for that? right? This is going to be my last attempt with this :( it is horrible. It was going so well but it was such a shock when she approached me i just paniced and forgot how to talk, she left thinking 'what an idiot' probably now i am being avoided and.. Uch i dont even know. Ill say hey or good morning tomorrow, ill probably be ignored haha

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    As a girl, I think it would be really frustrating for a guy you like to sit next to you for half and hour without talking to you, so there is a chance she might think you don't like her. Don't feel bad, though. Just start up a conversation one day. Perhaps she is just nervous like you. Girls aren't as complicated as people seem to think. We like to feel loved, like people enjoy our presence. If you think she's pretty or interesting, just tell her that. She'll let you know if she's uncomfortable.

  • 7 years ago

    Tell her whyyyy you're being awkward. "Hey I know I've been kinda awkward lately but. Honesty I do like you and I think that's why. You make me a little nervous (inserts laugh here)" Or something like that.lol make it light hearted and funny. Or text it to her or write it to her. She's going to think you're a creep if you don't explain whyyyy ou act how you do. And she may even love that she herself is making you act this way lol I find it cute and she might too ! Plus you've got nothing to lose since she's leaving. Right?

  • 7 years ago

    You need to explain to her that you are awkward around her because you like her so much because she could be angry at you if she thinks you don't like her

  • 7 years ago

    Tell her. She leaves soon, so if you mess up again then it wont matter because shell be away.

    Sometimes girls avoid guys because they like him. (i know its weird but its a girl thing)

    If you honestly feel she hates you, then ask why. Lots of friends do that, so its not weird.

    Get a "wing man" or whatever guys call that. Ask a TRUSTABLE friend, not the other one, to go and ask her questions and stuff like that.

    Good Luck!

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