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What should I do about my relationship?
I have been with my girlfriend for a few days less than a year and I've started realizing more lately that we don't exactly have the same personality. When we first started dating i felt it was because I asked her to prom and we talked for 2 weeks and we're going out but I notice that I can't really talk to her. We are long distance by about 7 hours and I text fine but talking on the phone is awkward and there are numerous awkward silences. When she is here I feel like I rush leaving back to my house because we have nothing really in common so I feel weird being with her when we mostly just sit in silence. I feel like we force some conversations but I don't know if this is good for a relationship. She is the sweetest girl but I just feel like she tries to act like nothing is awkward but it's quite obvious. She always says that we should work through things like this but I realize more that this issue is simply because we are different people. I just don't know if this is how I should be feeling with a person I should want to be with forever...
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- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
If it isnt right there is nothing you can do about it. my only advice is to talk to her about it and maybe you can work it out.
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- ?Lv 77 years ago
Well it's clear you don't belong together forever. And part of having a good relationship is being able to experience things together in life. If you are long distance and don't get to see each other, you can't have that experience that is SO important. This is a waste of time for you. You are not happy and I don't think this is fixable. Even if you had tons of things in common you still need that personal time and personal connection of seeing each other very often and going out together. That's what relationships are about. Not this long distance crap.
I dated long distance for two years but we saw each other once a month for 3-4 days. It's hard!