What can I do?

A woman relied on the word of an ex boyfriend to poison my relationship with her. It broke my heart, and now I have to deal with a possible restraining order. But that's not the worst of it. She left stuff at my place, and then moved out. Now she comes back almost ever night at 9pm sharp, with a police escort, to go through my house for things she left behind. Its not civilized. All she'd have to do is email me in advance, and I'd let her search, or warn me advance that she will be coming at 9pm, with cop in tow. Is that too much to ask? In any case, the cop invariably treats me like an an animal, one exception so far. I seemed to have lost all rights to privacy, based on the word of a jealous boyfriend to an immature woman.