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I got a girls number, but she didn't text back?

So I was at a party on Saturday night and started flirting with this girl, she suggested we take a shot and then we really kicked it off. Before she went back to her friends I ask her for her number. We talked a little during rest of the party and then when she was leaving I told her I'll call her. I waited a day and texted her last night, but she hasn't responded yet and it's now Monday. So what's the deal? And should I text her again, even tho she hasn't texted me back. And in the first text I said "hey 'her name', this is 'my name'. It was great hanging out with you last night at the party. Should I text her "hey what's up?" Or maybe ask her out straight up? Even though she hasn't replied to my first and only message.

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  • 7 years ago
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    First, you should have told her that you were going to contact her. Make girls wonder about you. It has been scientifically proven that women feel more attraction to men that they wonder about. If she knows that you like her she can't wonder about you. Common sense would have told her that you found her attractive enough to spark a conversation with her and close by getting her number but she still could have been left wondering if she was going to hear from you. When you build enough attraction and comfort when you meet the girl she will want to see you again. The is to get her to invest in you during the pickup. This is accomplished by simply leading the conversation and asking quality questions. The idea is to subtly dig without appearing creepy and making her feel as if she is being interrogated. If she is attracted to you and comfortable she will begin to invest in you emotionally by revealing things about herself to you. Once this happens she will want to see you again. Women want to see men that they emotionally invest in again. She will want a return on her invest men. Spend more time building rapport with women that you meet and being playful, confident, and fun.

    Second, don't text women on the first call. It creates an obstacle. Call her instead to ask her out on a date. Don't waste anytime with women. Get to the point. This communicates that you are a man that knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go after it. When this comes from the right frame(you genuinely seeing yourself as a catch) then you will get more positive results. If she answered and didn't remember you she wasn't interested. If she didn't answer you would try back a week later. If she didn't answer a second time, move on. Which brings me to my third point.

    Stop being fixated on one little number that you got. I get numbers all of the time. It means nothing even when she was initially attracted to you. You don't know what is going on in the background. She could secretly have a boyfriend or husband and even a girlfriend. She could have given you the wrong number. She could have died over the weekend. Who cares. You should have forgotten all about it because of all of the other women who you called that gave you their numbers that actually answered and are dying to see you. This is a winners mentality. Winners come from a non-thirsty state of mind and women can pickup on this. They can also sense that you really don't have anything else going for yourself as well because if you did you wouldn't have reassured her that you would call her. Guys with real options don't act this way. They don't get fixated on ONE number.

    At this point she is probably ignoring you being that you actually got a real number. Don't take it personal. It happens all the time. Start building rapport with women you meet and you will see that they will be less flaky when you call them. Flakes are rather easy to solve once you know what you are doing. The next step is having good phone and text game to build more attraction and to get you laid.

    Call her next Monday. If she answers and remembers you, ask her out the right way(see link below).

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    If she doesn't answer, don't worry about it. Leave a message saying "Hey [her name]. Call me back. I want your opinion on something." If she doesn't call you back, don't take it personal. If she does your phone game better be tight. If it isn't I give free coaching on my website(link below). Just a quick pointer if she returns your call and asks you what you wanted to ask her say, "I just wanted to know what I should wear on our first date." If she isn't receptive or says she is seeing someone don't panic. Continue to be cocky and funny and lead her into your frame(reality). Persistence is the key but never chase. Never try to keep someone who doesn't want to keep you. If she declines, tell her if she changes her mind to give you a call otherwise "have a wonderful life" and end the call. Never call her again and find someone who will really be into you.

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  • 7 years ago

    Sometimes I get like this too. I think you're just over thinking it a bit. Don't worry about what you have to say, but saying what you said makes it sound too quick. If you met here at a party, you should probably wait like 3-5 days otherwise she'll just feel rushed and be like "oh that's that guy I met at the party two days ago when I was drunk as ****" lol. You should gave it a few more days. Don't say anything else, just wait till she replies, and if she doesn't, tough luck.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Call her. Its so 'modern day' to text someone. Texting is for people who dont have time to call the person, are too pov *** to spend money on the call to their mobile, and if she gave you her number she wants you to call (otherwise she woulda given you her postal address so u could send her postcards an other little messages!). Before mobile phones were the big 'craze' (in the nineties) you would just call the person because as you also asked, texting cant show emotion or reaction to what the other person is saying (so how do you konw if they are interseted, she might joke about something an you could take her seriuosly). Just call her, good luck =)

  • 7 years ago

    I once got hot check number and was really excited, the next morning I tried to contact her it turned out to be a local cement factory tele number. So you should call her and check it actually workers before wording into the endless possibilities.

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  • 7 years ago

    Stop asking this over and over. If she liked you she will text you back. She was just being polite. She doesn't like you.

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    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Think out of the box when it comes to dates. Do things that are unexpected and fun. You want her to feel like when she’s with you anything is possible. Learn here http://attractanywoman.emuy.info/?69j2

    She’s been on plenty of dinner-and-a-movie dates. Do a little research and find interesting places and things to do around town that’s out of the ordinary. There are hidden gems in every city. Also, get to know the owners of small restaurants and business. When your date is known by the people in the establishment, it feels more like you’re being invited into his inner circle. Just be aware that there’s a fine line between being impressive and showing off. Make sure that you make your date feel like you’re inviting her in and sharing instead of being a douche. It all goes back to intentions.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Dont listen, just text her, ask did she received your message cause you dont see reply..

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    try calling it, it might not even be a working number

  • 7 years ago

    I would try one more time if she doesnt reply she isnt interested

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