My guy friend never asked me how many former lovers I have had.. but If I answered I would say A LOT!?

It has nothing to do with now, because he has not asked you. So either you are dying to ask him, and are thinking he will toss the grenade back in your direction, or you are not comfortable with your past.

Either way, lie. The proper answer (unless you are 15), is to say "a couple." You can also try "enough to know what I like in man."

Alot means you have potential for female cancers in the future. Many a promiscuous woman has said she has Ovarian or . Cervical. Etc. Cancer from multiple partners when she was young. Besides, STDs such as venereal warts , herpes, etc. I suggest you get a STD check up. All a new partner needs to know and see from your document is that you are clean n free of STDs and cancer. If you tell a man you have had multiple partners he will you it against you at some point. Don't give him an open door to call you a slut or a whore. And ask for a document proving he is free of STDs also. You wouldn't want to contract something from him. Syphilis is back and raging. Good Luck

Most men are like that but where im from that is a factor weather you are going to be my main girl or my side chick or fling.. they have this obsession with how many dudes can say I had her and if he cant go anywhere without someone looking and whispering about how you and another dude hooked up he may feel as if hes a fool for being in public with you. A man wants to feel like he has gotten something special in a lady and not everybody had her..

None of his business. Why do I say that? Because the minute you will tell him, a lot, or 23 or whatever, he will start feeling jealous (because in his imagination, he is the first, you see, his pride cannot accept some realities of life). And with jealousy will come mistrust, aggression, jealousy, etc. and your relationship will be over. Do not anwer this question, and do not ask him this question. Let bygones be bygones.

It's none of his business how many lovers you have had, and i wonder why someone would be so bold and intrusive to ask? I have a boyfriend, and my past sexual history isn't up for discussion. What does it have to do with right now? Nothing.

Whatever number it is does not change who you are now. People tell me that i look like i get it a lot (which i find offensive and baffling..) but i dont. So its up to him if he wants to judge you. If hes a good friend and just curious he wont treat or think of you differently. But you dont even need to tell him unless you really are the truthfull type

I don't associate having a lot of former lovers as a good thing. It makes you look easy like you're willing to date just about anyone. If he asks you it's not really his business. I definitely wouldn't "boast" and say "a lot" if I don't want people to see me in a negative light.

The answer is always, "It's in the past and made me who I am today. Adults understand this, children don't.

So are you bragging and making a fool of yourself? WHAT??????