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friends with benefits?

Ok i have been friends with benefits with this guy over 2 years, he has openly expressed that he didn't want a relationship with me other than sex..well last night while we were doing the do...he made me tell him i loved him right before the peak of no return...as i told him i loved him ( which i had expressed i have feelings for him, but he said he didn't feel the same way) he said right after i said i love you he said me too and he went into sexual bliss lol i'm just curious what does this mean.. Everyone i need an answer but i want it from men mostly it's not like we just hook up and 10 mins later he is gone we do spend like 3 or 4 hours together afterwards laughing joking playing etc .. Guys please break down this " guy code" for this dumb girl thanks.

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    7 years ago
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    Guy code? I thought that was just a myth! Anyway I know you said you want a guy's opinion and I'm a girl but I just wanna put my two cents on the matter. It sounds like all this messing around is starting to get a little serious, no? And even though you both agreed to just sex, there is no way this wouldn't end up in you two getting together! Sex can be fun but when you spend alotta time doing it with the same person over and over -- you create a physical bond where you feel like you're suddenly very comfortable around this person because he knows you better than most people and you know him better than his friends do to. You said you also have feelings for him, right?

    Then I bet you knew this was gonna happen, didn't you?! lmao Admit it, you saw it coming and that's why you agreed to the whole friends with benifits thing, it's a classic tactic! Sounds like it's working on him too and it spells great news for the future. Wait, does he have a girlfriend? Cause if he does then that would seriously turn things around in a bad way like you could be strengthening their relationship more and stuff! But if he's single then you might be in luck. He sounds like the kinda guy who might be afraid of full on commitment so maybe that's why he doesn't wanna say it's official. Speculation though, technically it's all speculation but you gotta admit that there are alot of hints out there and I could be right. I hope I am, it would be awesome if I were, it's like a modern fairy tale! Fingers crossed!!!!! :3

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