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Im not sure what to do about my boyfriend? Yikes.?

Hey guys! Me & my boyfriend have been dating for awhile now..He dated this girl before me..& broke up with me once because of her..Turns out, hes talking to her again. He already knows how i feel about this girl..Of course it bothers me because he lost his virginity to her & shes trouble. He's been hanging out with her alone..She even asked him out on a date! Im not even sure what to do..Or how to bring up this topic to him. He didnt even tell me about this, my best friend told me. PLEASE PLEASE Help! Thank You.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    To be honest the only thing you can do is talk to him about it cuz no one else is gonna understand your exact situation so I'm not gonna give u advice that might be completely wrong. But I mean it's really suspicious that he didn't tell you he's hanging out with another girl alone. And he might still have feelings for her cuz I mean they had sex. And another thing, are you completely sure your friend was telling the truth? I hope ur relationship turns out well tho. Good luck!

  • 7 years ago

    I would say to move on from this relationship. Feeling constantly worried (and you fully have a right to be due to the situation), is not a healthy way to live. I can see this ending up getting worse and hurting you more. It's not worth it to put yourself in that situation, so best advice would be to leave him and find someone who thinks you are enough for them. I would definitely not trust that.

  • 7 years ago

    If she were just a female FRIEND then I would say that it's normal and okay to hang out with her, but it's clear that she has intentions of being more than friends, and it sounds like she has no respect for your relationship. She sounds nasty. There are much better guys out there than this douche.

  • 7 years ago

    he's your boyfriend. not hers. What the ****. what is he doing?

    he clearly doesn't care about your feelings. It doesn't sound like it will end well. so before you get even more heartbroken, break it off. You'll be the bigger person, and you won't look naïve for staying with him when you already knew what was going on.

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  • 7 years ago

    I'd say you should end things :/ A boyfriend is supposed to help and uplift his girlfriend, not do things he knows that'll hurt her. Good luck :)

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201403... answer mine?

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I agree with the others, sadly. Be bold and break up with him. Or at least tell him you'll break up with him if he continues to do what he's doing.

  • 7 years ago

    if u stay with that guy, it'll be trouble! trust me, i'm talking from my very own experience! u better end things sooner than later

  • 7 years ago

    Doesnt sound trustable...seems like he may have a thing for his ex.

    Ask him straight how he feels about and about his ex.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I would say he's not worth your time

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