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Do relationships work out when girls say they dont want sex until marriage?

Now im young 18, and i know in a lot of other guys minds when we get into a relationship we are looking to get it in, just being straight up if a guy sais he's fine with waiting until marriage he is either 1. low key gay, 2. an liar, or 3. going to be in a relationship with you but be sleeping around on you. I have friends who have said they tried it but within a month and a half or two months they dropped the relationship. I just want to know from peoples experience with this if they actually put up with it. to me its like impossible to be in a relationship and not get physical, its not going to last long, im not saying get it in on the first date, but if you got to wait 6 years before you let your man in, he gonna be gone in a few months.

Update:

a liar*

Update 2:

Im not saying all thats needed is sex, but you got to balance it out, a guy isnt going to want to spend money on you taking you out to eat every night and then when they get home friday night you dont get any. Emotional and Physical needs to be balanced in my opinion.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I have a guy friend who dated this girl who didn't want to have sex until marriage. She used him in every possible way she could and he let it happen, I think it had to do with the fact that she had something he desperately wanted (sex). She was a bit out of his league (but well he didn't have much competition b/c everyone they went to school with knew she didn't have sex). The relationship may last, but from what I've seen the guys just look desperate. He did everything for her and nobody knew why he stayed with her. I don't think you can have a legit relationship without being intimate.

  • 7 years ago

    You dont need to be eachothers sex toy to have a good relationship... you dont actually love eachother if all you want from one another is sex

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