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I'm going to stave myself for a boy ??!?
Ok so I'm going to make this very painful story short so about 4 months ago I was in science class sitting in the back wit my 4 friends and long story short this dick came over and said, and I quote, "you are so fat you're like exploding" I felt horrible it felt like someone was sitting on chest and I couldnt breath it's just no one had ever called me fat I mean they made little remarks or jokes about my weight but he actually said "fat" so it was the last class of the day but it was 90 mins long (our school is weird I know)
I tried not to cry all class and it was HARD I told my friends I was fine, I wasnt, I ran home after school and cried then the next day he apologized and I had to pretend I was ok bc I don't wanna star drama I was like it's ok I'm not upset it was just a joke haha but I was NOT ok and the comment still makes me cry when I think about it
but ok so it's summer here and has been since December so I haven't seen him at all thank god but now a bunch of people wanna hang out and I am and he is invited and I have lost a few pounds and look a little different but I'm still fat and I feel almost like obligated to starve myself until Saturday just to look better for him like I don't like him but I still feel this way why and should I ?? I mean it's kin of a big deal and I'm scared he might call me or think I'm fat again I'm scared pls help me I need advice I feel like a fat worthless piece of **** around him and he isn't even cute or popular I hate him :'(
im sorry its so long but i desperatley need adivce and i am fat im 14 years old, 5'4" and 159lbs. the last time he saw me i was 170 so i managed to lose some weight but yea im still fat
6 Answers
- 7 years ago
That crude, rude worm!!! You only need to lose weight for you not anyone else. If you are over weight, get a copy of the FOOD PYRAMID chart. Eat according to the recommendations. Measure portions. That is important. A portion of fruit and veggies is 4 oz. A portion of meat is about the size of a deck of cards. If you hand out with friends who snack, order diet drinks or water with lemon or lime. Walk one mile every day. That is addition to all the activity you already have.
dbellrn
- 7 years ago
Don't starve yourself... I was anorexic. It's not good at all. You will never feel healthy unless you eat something. I'd trick my body all the time. I lost 20+ pounds and it was even harder on my friends and family. It did not make me feel better as a person either. If you want to lose weight go on a exceptional diet and exercise and talk to your mom or doctor about other ways! Good luck darling, I hope it turns out! You're beautiful no matter what!
- 7 years ago
Your you, and someone out there will love you for you so don;t worry about what other people think look at them and laugh, there picking on you because your an "easy" target. Show them that you don't care and look at them and laugh or you don't even have to laugh just look at them and smile. You will be the one laugh at them when there living life of hell and your a successful business woman or whatever you want to be! Just remember bullies always pick the "easy" targets.
- 7 years ago
Don't starve yourself, if you want to loose weight eat healthier and exercise. Don't listen to what the kid told you. He is probably jealous.
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- 7 years ago
Don't change yourself for some guy be who you are, because everybody else is already taken! You shouldn't care what other people think just be you!
- Anonymous7 years ago
I'm sorry you've experienced this.
