Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Is she playing hard to get?

There's this girl I really like. About a year ago, I was friendzoned by her, because I was a huge awkward penguin. After a year later, I met her again from a charity organisation we are involved in, and she says I've become "taller, slimmer and buffer" (her exact words). Anyway, she seems to have taken a bit more interest in me now that I've opened up more as a person. I've asked her out, (the date is in a weeks time), with her answer being "YES sure text me,". So I texted her, and I realised that whenever we text on whatsapp, she completely ignores my messages, and only replies after a few hours with a cheerful text. I'm sure she's not ignoring me because she finds me annoying and stuff, firstly because her texts are cheerful and fun, secondly because if she REALLY didn't like me, she would've never even replied. The thing is, I KNOW she's online on whatsapp because she was posting on the charity whatsapp group, like she KNOWS I will see it, and WANTS me to see it. She just doesn't want to reply me. This has been going on for a while now. I even gave her a call, and she answered the call after a short while, and we had a wonderful lively conversation with a lot of flirting and jokes. I'm just confused about the texting part. She has been known to take the inititative with guys, and if she did have interest, I feel she wouldn't have wasted quality talking time with me, someone who obviously would like her back. Could she be playing hard to get?

3 Answers

Relevance
  • 7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yes she could I think it's cause she wants u to miss her and maybe she didn't take the initiative with u became u were her friend and it's kind of awkward

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    In my opinion, this is a red flag. No offense, but this girl may only be talking to you because your hot now and she knows that other girls will want you. If your going to continue to talk to her, I say keep it casual. Talk to other girls and find the one who won't ignore you and have you chasing behind her. Real relationships don't form around this kind of situations. Bottom line, she's being immature.

  • AUSTIN
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Probably haha sorry for the short answer but sometimes the simplest answer is the correct one

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.