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I'm confused about my sexuality?

Hi there :) so I'm seventeen, sexually a male, and really have no idea what my sexuality is. Honestly speaking, I have no sexual attraction to females. I have dated girls in the past, and enjoyed the relationships greatly, but I have never had a desire to become sexually intimate with them. Emotionally, I can have a deep relationship, but sex is out of the question. But with males, I feel a strong sexual attraction. Awkward confession, but I only watch gay porn. And I have had sex with a guy before and enjoyed it. So I could see myself in a relationship, emotionally and sexually, with a guy. Yet I'm not opposed to the idea of being with someone who does not identify as male or female. But if I was in a relationship with them it would purely be emotional, not physical. I feel love goes beyond just physical attraction. So currently I identify as Pansexual, but I'm not sure if such a label really suites me.

And on top of all of this I have no idea what my gender is :( I consider myself to be androgynous. I feel neither feminine or masculine, and believe that gender is really all in our heads. I know that biologically I'm a male, but I often feel that such a term doesn't suite me well.

Sorry for the really long rant, but I'm just extreme confused. Do you think Pansexual defines me? Or am I something else entirely? Thanks in advance for your help :)

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  • 7 years ago
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    You could be pansexual. However, you state you are only physically and sexually attracted to males. Most people want a physical and sexual attraction as part of their relationship, as well as emotional and romantic.

    Maybe you should consider trying to date a guy, and see how it goes, if you feel you are ready?

  • Go with the females dude.. it's the natural ans safe thing .. and wait till you marry ,,doesn't matter if people start bullying you about being virgin.. it shows your strength and value for this holy bond between the man and woman.. don't do sex out of marriage, don'r ruin the feelings or the body of some girl ..

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Your bi byby off for more points

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