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Am I a rebound?

The guy I'm seeing came out of a 3 year on and off relationship 6 weeks ago

He says that the relationship would've only been a few months in total but it was over a 3 year period

He's kissed a lot of girls so I'm guessing this was during the breaks in his relationship , which to me indicates he rebounds( he's only 19) hasn't had that much time to kiss a heap of girls beforehand lol

We started seeing eachother about 2 weeks ago and we've just clicked , we have common interests and he's very caring and fun. He was a real gentlemen and says he wants to stick around, I've asked if I'm a rebound and he's said I'm not but I've told him I wanna give things a little more time before we're officially going out

Things have kinda fast forwarded in the sex department but we haven't had sex and I've told him I wanna slow down and I've been given permission to slap him if he gets too horny lol

What should I do??

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Hey there sweetie

    it seems like you really like him but 3 years is a long time to be with someone but if he hasn't given you a reason not to trust him then everything should be fine just don't rush into anything until you're 110% certain xx

  • Ok...
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Hes going to say any little thing, ANY. LITTLE. THING. .... to get into your pants.... then vanish.

    And you are falling for it.

    P.s. OF COURSE a guy is going to say "no youre not a rebound"-- he wants in your pants! Good luck!

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