Is housework just a womans job?

No it's not and you need to have a discussion between you and your husband, you are not their maid you are their wife, daughter-in-law and sister-in-law. That being said if they all contribute as much effort into the house and the family, then it's all good, if they work and buy things for the house while you don't work then you need to prepare food well at least for your husband.

Housework should be divided amongst ALL the capable people who live there...however, if someone does not work outside the home or only works part time (versus others who work full time) then that person could reasonably be expected to take on a larger burden of the housework, since they would tend to have more time and are probably not contributing as much financially...

The days of housework being considered "women's work" (in the US at least) ended decades ago...

Yeah, that would be a negative.. Not in my house! I haven't done laundry since 2009.. Every able bodied person should help out around the house in some way..

No, it is not only for women to do.

In my home we all pitch in - my husband, son, and daughter.

If I were you I would let them know the chores you will do (make them things that would gross you out if they are not handled) and tell them to divvy up the rest and then do not touch the rest, period.

BTW - I agree with the person who said it is a stay-at-home person's job. Whenever either my husband and I were not working for whatever reason we took on the majority of the chores while home.

If you don't believe you ought to be the one who does all the housework, then do not do all the house work. Simple as that.

house work is stay at homes person job...if both work outside they share house work, or hire cleaning lady...

living with anyone other than your husband, and underage kids not a good idea...that's a circus not a marriage you're having---

Do you live in a third world country?

The only way it should be your responsibility is if they all work & you don't. Even then they should help out.

No it is not only a woman's job. Stop doing it all and tell them that you are not their maid.

if u re unemployed -. yes. if they re unemployed as well -. no