Her bf is destroying our friendship!?

have you ever tried to be his friend too? I understand your friendship because my ex and I are very close too.. there is nothing sexual or sinister about our friendship and I didn't want my current boyfriend to feel threatened by him so I don't spend time with my ex unless my bf is around.. we talk lots and I never hide anything from my bf.. the two of them are good friends now too and everything is great.. call him and ask him to meet you for a coffee someday.. tell him face to face that you are not trying to break them up nor are you trying to win her back.. make him feel comfortable and included and you just might have a chance to get your friend back.. if he won't go for this then just be patient and wait.. if he made her choose then she is simply trying to prove to him that he is the important one and that he is the one she wants.. doesn't mean that she doesn't want your friendship, she is just trying to keep her boyfriend happy and Im sure you can understand that right?? good luck

Homestly I don't think you should be talking with her as much to the fact she's in a relationship now. Her bf will definitely feel like your trying to get her back. Even if you are full of good intentions, he's still her bf. so ....sorry man you gotta give them space.

just look at it this way ....

if she was your girlfriend and she was hanging round with him ( being a EX ) , how would you feel ?

move on ....there will no more ploughing that field

Of course her current boyfriend does not want her to remain friends with her ex (you). Can you really blame him??

your a clown . you and your ex lmao . who keeps a ex around. im taking you man card and handing you a gun shoot yourself