My girlfriend kissed her ex while drunk?

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It's early in our relationship, we've only been together for a couple months. Things have been GREAT so far, after hours of talking she seemed just as into it as I was. Then, last night, she went to an Easter Sunday party. My girlfriend is bi and her ex is now her best friend, but they kissed at the party. Apparently she, the ex, tried to have sex with my girlfriend but she pushed her away, being loyal. But they still kissed. She told me about it the next morning in absolute tears, apologizing and reassuring me it won't happen again. She was INCREDIBLY drunk last night and I've been in that position before.. I've told her that it's okay and that we can work at building trust again, because I didn't really trust her entirely in the first place, considering that it is early in the relationship. I really like her, and I want to forgive her, but I need your opinions? What would you do in this situation?

Thanks!

Matt · Accepted Answer

Yeah forgive her because she was drunk and you have courage you wouldn't normally have. Also she stayed loyal and didn't have sex with her ex and if you dump her that's what's going to happen or she's going to have another partner and trust me it will hurt more than a kiss.

Anonymous · Answer

Your going to take a risk. If I was you and I really like her. I'll probably give her another chance especially sense she did told you upfront. But that can never happen agian. That's already the first strike. I understand that she was drunk but at the same time, that's an excuse. People always use that as an excuse. But like you said, It's still very early in the relationship. So you can either take the risk or not.

Patricia · Answer

You didn't trust her in the first place.  She helped this along later by kissing her ex.

Now you think she's going to stop this behavior .

Anonymous · Answer

If she was drunk then she probably had no idea whilst she was doing it or wasn't thinking straight. The fact that she didnt go all the way shows she loves you more. Forgive her but don't forget

Anonymous · Answer

Hi so people do some strange things when drunk.

old timer · Answer

you say you like her so give her another chance, we all make mistakes when we are drunk, don't read much into it and enjoy life.

Anonymous · Answer

no excuse!1 dump her or you will look like a cuckold

Anonymous · Answer

i would say give her another chance but if it happens again sack that ***** :L

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