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Should I get closure?

I talked to this girl for 4 months. We stopped about 2 months ago but ended on good terms. I can't seem to get over her. Everytime I see her in public or on social media I'm reminded of what we had. I'm also pretty sure she has a new boy now so I feel like she is stringing me along as a back up cause she keeps texting me every now and then and being flirty and acting like she misses me. Should I delete her on all my social networks? I wouldn't mind giving us another shot in the future but I need to move on for now. I'm afraid deleting her would be burning bridges. Also, she is about to leave for the summer so I was thinking about texting her and telling her that I hope she has a good summer and I hope to see her again to show that I do care but I'm moving on. Is that a good idea?

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    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Did you ever actually tell her you liked her? It just says you talked for four months. If you did, then I'd do whatever feels right to you and won't make you feel badly, and you could delete her from social media sites. If you did not, then you have a few options. I don't think you should delete her. I wouldn't go about telling her you like her right now necessarily, since she's leaving, but I also wouldn't make it seem like you're nonchalant towards her and her leaving. I'd say it'd probably be good to wish her a good summer and that you'll have to see each other when you get back.

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