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Girlfriend doesn't like my best friend?
I'm 18 years old, my girlf is 17, and my best friend is 17.
It's kinda a complicated situation but I'll be brief.
My best friend is actually my ex girlfriend.
So understandably, my girlf has mixed feelings, and thinks that feelings between my ex and I may come back, but any sense of attraction between us has gone now.
I talk to my best friend about EVERYTHING. It's been like that for almost a year now. So, when a problem between my girlf and I arises, I talk to my best friend about it. My girlf absolutely hates this.
I don't want my ex to compromise my relationship because I really love this girl, I've never felt like this about anyone before. The last thing I want to do is break up with her. I don't know what to do. Any ideas?
5 Answers
- ?Lv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
Stop talking to your ex-girlfriend about your current girlfriend problems. If you think about it, I'm sure you'd come to the conclusion that you wouldn't like it if your girlfriend was off crying on some other dude's shoulders about your problems. It'd be totally lame. It's like emotional cheating. Anyway, I'm sure you didn't know that before now, so now you know.
- 7 years ago
That is a sticky situation. I think you should have a talk with your girlfriend and explain that while your ex is your best friend, she's your ex for a reason. Make sure that your girlfriend knows just how much you love her and make sure she knows that she has absolutely nothing to worry about. She has to have some kind of trust or the relationship will never last. Maybe you should curb some of what you tell your best friend. I mean, best friends ae there for you no matter what but some stuff in a relationship should just be between the two in the relationship. If nothing else seems to work, the only optin left is to make a choice Its your girlfriend or your best friend....
- ?Lv 57 years ago
Obviously, she's jealous of the close relationship you have with your best friend. What you need to do is focus on building a closer relationship with her. Start opening up more to her, and be sure to share if you have any problems going on with friends. Make her feel like her relationship with you is way more important to you than that with your best friend. Got it?
- 7 years ago
I think you need to seperate your relationship and your friendship. Is it possible that your ex still has feelings for you? Maybe that's why your girlfriend dislikes her.
I was in your girlfriends place once; I hated my exes best friend even though I tried really hard to get along with him because THEY'RE BEST FRIENDS and we're gonna be around eachother a lot. I think in order to keep your relationship healthy, you need to distance yourself from your friend.
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- Anonymous7 years ago
Maybe its not you having feelings for your bestfriend but your bestfriend having feelings for you. IF that is true then your girlfriend sees that and that is why she hates her. Maybe. Im just saying. Girls are good at spotting that kind of stuff.