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Eric asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

How to kick someone from a friendship group?

This guy was a really good mate and then he just started making fun of us in little ways, like hinting (badly) that some of my friends were overweight, or short, or got one less A than him.

He also makes my other mates in other groups go away if I go talk to them because he follows and copies me all the time (plus No one really likes him) and people notice and find it weird.

Anyway we unanimously said **** him so we need to kick him out but I don't want to ruin his childhood or anything by leaving such a scar, I know what that can do because it happened to me once.

Anyway help? Just for context we are all in year 9 and are all guys if that helps.

And I know it sounds awful (this whole question) I really know, but we just can't take it anymore.

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    7 years ago

    Someone needs to pull him up about his behavior because how he is acting is extremely hurtful. If it were me I would sit him down by our selves and explain to him that he is hurting everyone all the time even if he doesn't realize it, maybe tell him somethings he has said. Instead of kicking him out straight away maybe give him a chance to change and improve his behavior towards others, if he wont then say well you have to leave the group. Good luck.

  • 7 years ago

    But there must be a nicer way? I can't just abruptly tell him to **** off

  • 7 years ago

    Talk to him about his behaviour and that you all are sorry, but just can't handle his behaviour anymore..

    maybe use some "bleh bleh' Quotes about how people walk on a road in their lives and that some people may cross your road and maybe even walk along for a bit but that there will be a time that both of you have to go their own way, that the roads are getting split. ( I'm sorry for my crappy english.... English is my 3rd language)

    Also this is maybe a very girly way to do this, but what works.. works. ( I'm a girl so I don't know another way then this.. I've always cut off "friends" this way)

  • 7 years ago

    Dont kick him out. Just tell him to shut up, like all of you send him to message. He will stop for sure.

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  • 7 years ago

    just say GTFO

    Source(s): prior experiences
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