please share a story of an emasculated husband?

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this isn't meant to be a burn on women but rather the spineless men who marry them, submit to everything they're told and generally make dating harder for men who still have a pair. here's my story of a coworker, it's true:

Man, former football player, lineman, big dude gets married. buys a house for him and her, she doesn't want to work so he pays all the bills while she sits home with pets (no kids) for years. she wants a goose as a pet, he does not, a month later he's changing goose diapers. he's a steak loving, burger eating red blooded male. she's a vegan. so now in the house that he owns and pays all the bills he is not allowed to have meat in his own house (if a man dictated what a wife was allowed to eat feminists would lose their mind). he sneaks in real food where he can, sad I know. last bit he bought a bigger house for them, his new neighbour, a fisherman stops by, welcomes them to the neighbourhood and gives them a couple lobsters as a welcoming gift. yes, my coworker (who loves lobster) was commanded (and did) to take the lobsters back to the ocean and release the lobsters (where the fishermans brother watched him do this). what have we become?!?!?!

Nancy M · Accepted Answer

Sounds like the marriage is really working out more for the woman than for the man. The woman sounds a bit too controlling to me. I was married to a controlling man and we are now divorced.

VeeBee · Answer

Why is this your problem? He may very well enjoy his role in the relationship if he is willing to give up his meat ( that does not define masculinity, by the way anymore than playing football or being a big dude do) and he changes goose diapers and buys even a larger house.
  I could tell your story from a different point of view. This couple I know are so in love: They will do anything for each other, she gave up her career to tend to homemaking and he has changed his diet to plant based eating so he can live longer and they can enjoy their lives together. They have no kids yet, but have a pet goose that they treat like one...

evee · Answer

i don't appreciate you're comment about feminists---im a feminist and that story enrages me...im enraged that this man is putting up with this abuse..im enraged that you re calling him spineless....im enraged that super  c -u- n-t -s like her even exist...

is a battered woman spineless??? ok he probably has a bit of self esteem problem---but you don't know what happened to this man, and how he lost his self esteem..
he can rebuild himself...self esteem can be rebuild...it can be shattered by sever abuse and rebuild....

in any case this man is not spineless  he needs therapy, coz for sure anyone deserves better than that b -i - t- c -h...

don't be ignorant and insult this man would you insult cancer patient...

he needs help, but he does not need your insults....

also, this man has taken his non resistance to a pushy partner to extreme, but if you are honest and older than 25, you have to admit we have all been this man, at some point in our growing up, to some degree at least...

we all had pushy partners we let run us over to some extent..maybe not as much as this man, but to some extent yes....
william blake said you will never know how muhc is enough till you know how much is too much, something to that extent...this man can tomorrow divorce this nasty woman and build a whole new life and relationship for himself and be very happy...

Anonymous · Answer

If they get divorced,  she would get everything.

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please share a story of an emasculated husband?

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