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When should I let her know I really like her?

I really like this girl in my Spanish class. She and I aren't really friends. I want to establish a friendship with her,but my Aspergers gets in the way.

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  • Fanis
    Lv 6
    7 years ago
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    The answer that infobiz gaved you it's totally worthless and stupid so dont' take his advice.

    First of all if you want to get that girl you have to accept that fact that she may reject you or not reject you, if you accept that fact then you are good to go. Because you can't control her reaction, her response to you, there is no way possible you can do that.

    Now there are many sites out there showing you that in order to get women you have to hide your true self behind routines, pick up lines, tricks in order to get women. If you want to do that then do it, hide yourself behind that and finally when your true self comes out she will freak out and leave you and you feel terrible because you just tricked her.

    And there is the other way, the simple but hard way that is being totally honest, open with her. If you can accept the fact that she may reject you or she may not then you are good to go with this. The only way you will get in her friend zone is when you don't show her your true intentions, so if you don't show her you like her as a girl but as a friend she will move you into the friend zone, simple as that and there is no way out of this zone.

    So finally the only true, honest, authentic way to do this is to grow some balls, be a man, take responsibility, go up to her with confidence, find what you really like about her and go up to her and tell her straight away that you like her because of her smile or because of whatever reason you like her and you want to meet her more and go out with her. Tell her the truth, don't hide behind the friend thing... once you get in the friend zone and you tell her that you like her she will sure reject you and freak out.

    So what's the best way to do that ? Be friends with her first and when she finds out that you like her and you wanted to be friends to get close to her to freak out and reject you? To find some tricks and routines so that she likes you and after when your true self come out in the surface to freak out again and leave you? OR to be yourself, to go up to her confidently, being a man and with being totally honest, real and open with her to tell her what you want?

    Because rejections is always there, your choice on how to do it is up to you... i know what's the best way for me but for you, your choice...

  • 7 years ago

    First thing 2morrow

  • 7 years ago

    Hey man, if you want a girl to like you the best thing you can do is NOT confess your feelings for her. I had to learn this the hard way. If you confess your feelings to her and tell her you really like her one of these things will happen:

    1. she will ignore you

    2. she will avoid you

    3. she will put you in the friends zone

    4. she will not give you her number

    If you want her to chase you then you have to learn how attraction really works

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  • 7 years ago

    now

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