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why do guys like girls with no confidence?

Im not talking about douchebags who take advantage of her low self esteem, but a regular good guy.

How can they deal with constantly needing to confirm that their girlfriend is pretty and smart and her always whining about no being good enough.

How do guys like a whiny, low self esteem personality?

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  • 7 years ago
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    Good guys like girls that are a bit needy. Guys love to feel needed. They love knowing that their girl needs them to make her feel better about herself. Guys also love being the supporter type.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Not a guy, but I certainly think that those girls in the long run are annoying as hell. Have low self esteem as well, but I know that it does no good to just whine, so I try to keep it to myself as much as possible. Yeah it has positive sides to it, some people want to protect you, tell you otherwise, but they're never going to convince you and after they have realised that nothing changes they dislike that habit more and more.

  • 7 years ago

    People like who they think they deserve

    And they probably want to feel in control and needed

    Which is usually something th at comes with a girl with low self esteem

  • 7 years ago

    no idea. im super confident in myself, and guys are drawn to that. but im not the girl they want to settle with im just the 'cameron diaz', the girl that everyone loves but no one settles for. haha, that's confidence for ya

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