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Boyfriend wants to break up and said I'm "slow"? Please help me...?

So the text screenshot I included is his reply to me standing up for myself(and Paul is my dad who hates me and is emotionally abusive) telling him that I never do anything to him and he constantly puts me down and makes me feel stupid over little things like when he mumbles and I can't understand of hear what he's saying I'll say "huh?" And he will be like "it's common sense, obviously you're too slow to understand me" and when he asked if I wanted to help get his mom a bday present today I said "I can try, I don't have that much money but I'll help as much as I can" and his reply was "it's a f***ing yes or no question are you really that stupid? I can never get a decent answer out of you!"...he blames me for everything and I don't know why he left me for something I didn't do! :( please help me..

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  • 7 years ago

    Hes the idiot and obviously isnt worth your time girl. A relationship isnt a relationship when you feel more deppressed and underaprecciated than happy . Being unhappy shouldnt even occur for that matter. You can tell hes insecure of himself and only puts you down to make himself feel better. Please leave his *** because you sound like a nice girl that doesnt need to be with that kind of person.

  • 7 years ago

    Anyone who talks to you like that doesn't deserve you . You might think you love him but its lust , you don't need to be treated like that. That's verbal abuse and you don't need that. Just forget about him. Cause he sounds like one rude person.

  • 7 years ago

    Ok .. can I just ask "what made him get with you in the first place", I mean he must have liked something about you right. I am sure of it. Some people can be insensitive. Simply put honey, you deserve the best there is. You dont deserve anyone who is going to emotionally abusive towards you. You need someone who will compliment you and build you up not bring you down like he is trying to do. He is lucky to be with you and if he can not see that he doesn't desrve you and you can do better.

  • 7 years ago

    One thing that's guys have to learn is that. If there is a fight, the girl always wins.

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  • 7 years ago

    he sounds so nasty? if any guy spoke to me like that they would get a slap in the face! he definitely is NOT worth your time!

  • cherry
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    He sounds horrid... You're really better off without him

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