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I need some advise please...?

i´ve been going out with a boy a couple of times and i think i like him but today he told me that he has a tattoo of his ex girlfriend´s name on his chest. what do you think it means when somebody does that?

he says that it was the most stupid thing that he has done.

his relationship with that girl ended two years ago and it ended terribly. he really hates her right now and he says that he tried to remove the tattoo but it could not be done and that he´s very sorry.

until now i didnt mind that he used to be in love with this girl because it seems like he´s done with her and it´s completely over but i don´t know how i feel about a tattoo. can you please help me with this?

Update:

Thanks for all the answers specially doli and raven´s.

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  • 7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Everybody has problems and mistakes that they regret on their past. The guy was probably mad in love and rushed into doing something like that without thinking it over. Guys tend to do something crazy and stupid when their in love to impress their girl(I know I do). In your case, he tattooed her name to his chest. He told you he tried to remove it; he was honest with you and he just wants to make sure that it won't hurt you by telling this information earlier. We've all made stupid mistakes in our past but if you really do like this guy, I don't see why you can't overlook the guy's stupid decision that he obviously deeply regrets. Try putting yourself in his shoes. You made a mistake, can't fix it, have to live with it. That's life my friend.

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  • RAVEN
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    i worked in a studio for almost 10 years

    i wish i had a penny for every time a stupid person came in wanting their girlfriend/boyfriends name on them

    as a professional i advised and then did what the client wanted

    KNOWING it would be regretted

    i have to say, 9/10 it was a newish relationship and an insecure partner that made people do it

    and so many came back wanting cover ups, very quickly

    anyoen who does this, is frankly brainless

    i have a lot of ink so not a hater

    but names like this are just stupid

    i wouldnt hold any stock in it what so ever,

    it doesnt mean he loved her more than you

    it means he was young and stupid

    and we have all been there lol, we just expressed it in different, less permenant ways

    he needs to save for a cover up

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Can't erase the past.

    In this case - literally can't erase the past.

    Yes, it was a stupid thing to do. But it's done.

    Can't help you with anything - you say you don't know how you feel about it. Are you looking for someone to tell you how you should feel about it?

    You need to sort out your own feelings about it.

    However, I believe there are ways to have tattoos removed. Check into it.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Well, he did admit it was a terrible mistake and obviously he doesn't have feelings for her anymore. But I would let him know (gently) that it bothers you. But until he finds a way to remove it, then you can't really do anything but try to ignore it and knows that he cares about you, not her. I hope that helped.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    i dont understand why people do that ahaha i mean theres nothing to do about it but make fun of him right.... oh **** wait so hes got the name on the chest right? so maybe tattoo like "sucks" under it or like have an x across the name cuz its his ex i mean thats what i would do if i was like stupid enough to tattoo a girls name on my chest then regret it later

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Peak for u

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