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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

Why did this guy bully me and then all of sudden start being nice to me? is he gay?

So a few months ago, like back in March, this guy in one of my classes started making fun of me. I think he thinks I'm gay. He would say "Hey cutie" or "your lookin really cute today" or "whats wrong cutie?" when I ignored him. One time he also started feeling my arm and was like "Nice muscles". And I took it as him pointing out & teasing me that I dont really have any. He would also touch me alot like tickle my arm and stuff like that and smirk and act all innocent when i confronted him for bullying me. One time when he said "hi cutie" to me I asked him "Are you like gay?" & he surprised me w/ his response. he said "maybe"

Then, overnight it seemed, he stopped bullying me and started being nice to me. He would talk to me in a normal tone of voice, ask me about the sport that I play and make small talk , and sometimes give me compliments.. One time I was getting a drink @ the water fountain and he walked buy and was like "Hey Rumsy" and slapped my butt. I din't really think much of it at the time though because other guys at my school that I know, especially guys on my team, have slapped my butt before as a friendly gesture,im pretty sure.

But now I'm wondering, could he be a closeted gay and really just have a crush on me? He seems straight I would've never thought he was gay until he started this behavior. I know that sometimes people bully and/or tease the people they like...maybe hes insecure about his sexuality and taking it out on me?

WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    Either he's gay or he's trying to kill you..

    there was this news story about a girl who was new in school and she found "friends" who lured her to a forest and killed her.

    I would advice you stay away from that nut case

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    hell yeah he is gay avoid him like the plague he might try to rape you especially if your straight

  • 7 years ago

    Maybe you caught him, or maybe he's afraid of rumors.... Not sure

  • 7 years ago

    This guy probably realized how big of a tool he was being and decided to stop bullying you. And the whole but-slapping thing might've just been a slip up. Were his friends around? If they were, he might've been trying to "impress" them. I've been in a similar situation. He might be gay. But all what I do know is that he wants your attention. You don't have to give your attention to him if you don't want to. Hope I helped!

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    He probably changed because you either caught him, or because he was embarrassed that you called him gay when he really isn't. If that makes sense haha

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