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What do I need to do about my cousin?
Ok, so I have this really awesome cousin, she is 2 years older than me, and I think we are close, but, it's stat that she is very mean sometimes. She is generally a mean person, but I don't really mind. The reason I am posting this question is because we were at my baby cousin's birthday party, and well, she said I am stupid and says I need commonsense, but that is not true, I took an iq test and I scored 148 and not to brag but I take highschool level classes in 7th grade, and she is in highschool, but tales just like a couple of harder subjects, and I do have common sense, I'm just not as old as her, and stuff, when we play something like chess, or mercy or something, I lose a lot, but sometimes, when I tell her that idk, I HAD NEVER EVEN PLAYED CHESS BEFORE! Or that I have sensitive skin so it hurts more, she tells me to stop making excuses, and I am not trying to, I don't care about weather I win or not since it won't matter that I won a game of mercy in college, but she just snaps at me and it makes me feel bad, I accept defeat and I know she is better, but when I just try to tell her something, she just calls me stupid and snaps at me, oh and when I talked to her about it, like I was like, her cousin, is it your time of the month? She just snaps at me like it's all offensive, we'll it is personal but I just have this weird radar thing that tells me when people lie or if they are getting they girl problems... Its weird, but anyways, she snaps at me. Later when I actually
Try to tell her that she is hurting m
MY feelings, she was like, don't be a baby and get over it! I almost cried and I just thoufpght that she was being a hypocrite, also she calls me a looser and some non bad word names like weirdo or something, or fat, and I know I am fat, but I am trying to lose weight. But she is just a grumpy person in general, and is fun to hang out with, but sometimes she hurts my feelings and she just snaps at me when I try to tell her. Other than her grumpy problems
She is a really good person, but wait, she borrows my stuff and if I say no, she doesn't talk to me and gets all mad. It when I ask her, she doesn't let me borrow her stuff either, so I just let her take my stuff, but sometimes, she let's say, I ask to borrow her iPad to search something, she is like NO! But then she takes my iPad and hogs it and when I ask for it back, she just says, god don't be obsessed and when she finally gives it back, she gets all grumpy, like I said she is in general a
Nice person but sometimes she hurts my feelings and she doesn't care and I can't talk talk to her cuz she calls me a baby, so what should I do? I really like her like a sister but sometimes she is just mean.
I know that she doesn't sound nice, but she is a fun person to hang out with, but she gets mean a lot... And I did try telling her but she calls me a baby and stuff.. I don't wanna lose her as a friend, I just want her to stop being mean.
6 Answers
- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
Okay you answered my question and asked me to answer this one, so I will. I don't mean to sound mean, but you need to hear this and get it through your head. She doesn't sound "awesome" or "really nice" considering what she's called you and put you through. It might be hard for you, but you might have to be a teensy bit mean back and tell her okay I'm sick of this I'm sick of you being mean to me. You know, there's the possibilty she might not know she's being mean. Like, she might think she's being nice, where as you see it as mean. Or, as Nora (up above) said, she could be one of those arrogant people.
- 7 years ago
Thank you for answering my question, but i didn't get to go with my boyfriend lol Cx he replied too late and my mom will be home any minute. As for your question, i say you should talk her and tell her how you feel, is she doesn't listen to you, than stand up for your self. I have a couple of cousins who i fight with usually and we always end up talking to eatchother again cause' even if we try to avoid eatchother we can't because we are related, and families have get togethers and ****. She shouldn't treat you that way. I am the oldest out of all my cousins and i love them all and treat them good. If i get mad i just suck it up. But it seems likes she taking advantage of you shes not a good person.
- 7 years ago
She's just one of those persons who think of themselves as superior persons... they think everything HAVE to go along their wish. This type of people are sick and hypocrite. She calls you loser, right? Well you have an IQ of 148!!! (Wow!:O ) she's just jealous and wants to make you look bad. But come to the main point, she hurts ur feelings r8? Well, don't u think its a time to give her the dose of her own medicine? I hope you understand.
Hope u can overcome her cruel attitude;-)
- Anonymous7 years ago
she think she's better then everyone else but you're really better then hear you don't go and brad about things. that's a good thing
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- 7 years ago
My advice- get a hammer and a chisel. Creep into her room really quietly and hold the hammer and chisel above her head. Then put the hammer and chisel down and punch her face in
- Anonymous7 years ago
Honestly I think you should stand up for yourself, don't take her **** anymore.
