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Jaffar
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Jaffar asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 7 years ago

My roommate is obnoxious and tries to make everything a fight?

He tries to make everything a fight.. Tell him to move his stuff off the couch and argues, tell him he can't throw out my food and he argues, he gets louder and louder. If it's not his idea it's a bad idea. Don't know how to handle it anymore. I feel myself getting furious.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Toss him out. People like this just drag down everyone around them. My sister used to share with a person like this. It ended up none of her friends wanting to visit anymore and she started spending a lot more time elsewhere because he was just an arrogant pig. She moved out in the end and he couldn't find anyone else to move in with him because word gets around.

    He's not a spouse or family member so you have no obligations to him and life is too short to spend in the company of someone whose presence makes you angry all the time.

    Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Confront him. "Why do you make everything a fight? I just asked you to move your stuff is all." If that doesn't work, just let the rage out, bud. Yell back. Some people just plain don't respond to diplomacy and can't learn any other way.

    I wouldn't be able to put up with that, honestly. I would've just smacked the **** out of him a long time ago. I'd either kick him out or move out (if my name wasn't on the lease). Tell the man to go get some therapy.

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