Question about cheating and how to cope?

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Ok so I have been divorced and my ex cheated on me continuously for the entire 3 years of our relationship.

I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and he is amazing. I love him with everything in my heart. I have no idea what I would ever do without him. Every previous relationship I've ever been in the guys have either cheated on my and I left them or they left me for another female.

The way I see it, every guy is gonna cheat on me no matter what I just have to find the guy I want to go through it with.

I KNOW my boyfriend is and has been cheating on me. I know he currently met with another girl and I know that they did kiss. If I confront him about it, it'll just turn into another fight where he denies it and I don't have time for that.

What my question is, how do i just accept the fact that he's going to cheat on me and also I want to talk to him about being honest with me. I want to just no care or let it faze me anymore but I want him to be honest with me. For example, if he ever has sex with a girl I hope he'll tell me so I won't have sex with him because of the risk of catching anything.

B Rod · Answer

Well here is my answer you are incorrect, I have dated women that I'm particularly attracted to. For that reason the characteristics of those women are cheaters. If you want to accept that the men you are attracted to are cheaters and live with that. Then you are correct. If you want a man that doesn't cheat. Then you have to change the pattern of people you date. I have been cheated on by plenty of women. Now I changed what I was looking for and it is not easy, cause I'm not as attracted, but hey I'm not getting cheated on. not that they are not attractive women, but are less submissive. More independent, and I have to claw and scratch for a lot of our decisions. Guess it has crossed my mind to go back to the women I'm more attracted to and put up with the fact that it isn't going to work out. A truee fulfilling relationship, there is no cheating.

Krissy · Answer

No never do this to yourself, yes it maybe hard to confront him, but cheating is not good, it's so terrible and you will hate yourself for staying in that relationship. You need to find a guy who want you and only you because then you will find true happiness.  I know it's hard to go find a new guy but it's better to look then stay in a relationship were he's not devoted completely to you !

? · Answer

Dump the Douche! Not all guys cheat. I know at least 50 people in happy relationships and they never cheated (neither partner has). EVEN the guy. This includes me (minus being in a relationship).

Sophie · Answer

Be calm about it and he will open up maybe plus if hes kissed someone else so could you

i have been cheated on with every guy too and really there's only time that helps, there's always that one  song that helps (behind these hazel eyes Kelly Clarkson or part of me by Katy Perry where my ones) you just got to face the facts that these guys aren't worth your time, u can give him a second chance but no more okay?

upgrade your style, new hair cut too, you look good you feel good, gym helps also because your getting into shape and getting rid of stress

you need to find guys who aren't the players , try blind dates or even online dating just for a small relationship nothing serious just to see if you can cope with it,

you need to help you before your love life gets into shape

best of luck

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