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Is texting first bad?
I alway text the guy I like first but we've only talked like twice and we had like super flirty conversations but he never will text me first. He even told me we would talk about something tomorrow once and he never texted me! I really want to talk to him but I don't want to sound annoying I mean i always text him on like Wednesday and we stay up until like midnight until he has to go to bed. Is it bad if I continue to text first?
7 Answers
- JackieLv 77 years ago
it doesnt matter if you have a penis or vagina, the person who texts first is always the needy one. its ok if there is a healthy balance in your relationship and you take turns texting first, but you have fallen into a pattern of always being the one to do it.
if he wants to talk to you now he expects you to text him. he may have something he really wants to say but instead of texting you first, he knows that all he has to do is wait and you will initiate a conversation.
you do need to stop texting him first all the time, but don't just do it with out letting this guy know what is going on bc he will think that you are no longer interested in him. the next time you end a conversation with him tell him that you will be waiting to hear from him next time. make sure you clearly communicate that you do want to talk to him and that you are waiting for him to text you first. it might take him a while and you might start to think he doesnt care about you but remember that he is going to have to change his habits and sometimes that takes time. be patient.
- 7 years ago
He's the guy. Let him text you first. If you text him first all the time it will make you seem desperate
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- Anonymous7 years ago
Brooo ! So girls do feel bad ?! DAMNNN . It's okay to text him first he is just little shy :) . Most of the time guys do it casue girls are the shy ones but it looks like in your case he is just too shy and maybe don't know a topic to start the conversatiion ,this is one of the problems I I run it to when chatting with a girl , I want to text first but I'm not sure what to text and sometimes I over think it so the best way is to try and help the guy in the converstions . Don't answer with Yes an NO and Okay or K . Try keeping the conversation open and ask about him too dont leave him to interview you. At the end yes text him . Girls that text first ....
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- Anonymous7 years ago
Tell him how you feel
- 7 years ago
hmm..its always better when a guy texts first. this guy used to text me first most of the time, and then for weeks, he has stopped. I have texted him, and he will answer, but there is no initiation on his part.
so right now, I would say wait to see if he texts you. if he doesn't, then you know hes a jerk and most likely isn't interested.
guys are jerks. im just warning you because never did I think this guy would just drop me so easily, and I don't want that to happen to you. if he doesn't text you, then its his loss.
