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Unhealthy obsession with this person?

So there is this guy ive really liked for a while from youtube xD

And not so long ago i started to have fatasies about him and such. But its getting really bad and im genuinly in love with this person whom ive never even met.

And when i see him with other people i get jealous, and when i think about the fact that i live so far away from him and the BIG age different i get really upset and depressed and it feels so silly and dumb. But i really feel like this and i want it to stop because i see no logical reason to obsess and get down over someone who ive never met and probably never will meet, aswell as someone who i would never even like me anyway. UUUGH help please!

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  • 7 years ago
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    Well it certainly seems you are getting carried away, but who hasn't at some point, daydreaming, constantly thinking of your perfect new Beau, etc.? People we don't know and never met are able to be that "person of our dreams" because we only have limited information and usually its the good information that we have. So we use this limited information and fill in the blanks according to what we want. Most of the time it isn't true though. They are completely different. Perhaps you need a hobby or something to do to take your attention off this guy. Otherwise you will most likely end up disappointed, especially because you cant easily meet him to confirm what you think of him. You may be wasting your time. OR, meet someone else in person that you can like in a healthy way because they are actually there and you will know his good and not so perfect qualities.

    Source(s): -Real life expereiences
  • ////
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    People obsess over things they haven't got. Once they have it, they usually don't want it anymore. Obsession with others can get to the point where they think they are in a relationship with that person - that's why you feel jealous when you see him with other people. It is just castles in the air. Let it go.

  • Nguyen
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Hope it helps.

    Just picture him with jock itch in public. Also that he has AID's. Also he has genital warts. Also he has a 1 in woody.

  • Naguru
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Pl. reconsider. Is it unusual. If so, then discontinue..

    Good Question!

    Source(s): own
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