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ladytc
Lv 6
ladytc asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 7 years ago

I am I required to bring a gift?

I was invited to a 50th wedding anniversary party. The couple is very wealthy. I have known them most of my life and would have nothing to do with them, but we are related my marriage. They also owe me money. I am planning on just bring a nice card.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I second Edward. Card and wine. It doesn't matter if they owe you money, that is no excuse for being cheap. Either bring them something besides a card or do not attend the party.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    If they are so darn wealthy, why do they owe you money? A card is fine.

  • 7 years ago

    I would not bring anything. After 50 years of marriage there is nothing you can contribute that she does not already have and at 50th anniversary he is supposed to buy her gold or something so whatever you buy will be put on a shelf, thrown away or re-gifted so why bother. If you don't bring anything and they say something then why would you care when you don't want anything to do with them anyway.

  • 7 years ago

    A bottle of wine, some flowers or a plant but never empty handed.

  • 7 years ago

    Show up with an anniversary card and a bill for the money they owe you.

  • Sue B
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    I'd just take a card. Nothing more.

  • 7 years ago

    Just come! Don't have to bring anything. You are not close to them. Since they are wealthy, then why do they still owe you money.

  • Bob K
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    You are not required to do anything. However you would be in poor taste to come empty handed. But if that's you, then be cheap.

  • Edward
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Card and a bottle of decent wine ($15-20 range)

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